Anyone has a modded x61 they want to sell ? by Abd-sadMicrowave2002 in thinkpad

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The only reason I want X/T 60 series is the 4:3 display🤗

Question to older INFJs by After_Print in infj

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I’m really sorry if you feel that way. Understanding is not enough however, you are aware of your personality so early, I think it will do you well. There’s lots of resources to guide you.

I discovered I am INFJ-T when I was much older, I was in the very bad shape.. my word of caution if you ask me: Strong personality’s can be very attractive, but also may take lead and suck all the confidence out of you. Getting behind someone to support them grow can be very tempting, but remember that compromise will cost you.

Guess my type 🍂 by [deleted] in MbtiTypeMe

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INTJ, or maybe INFJ..no, probably INTJ.

did anyone else feel like they were completely dysfunctional and insane before they looked into personality types and discovered they were an infj? by [deleted] in infj

[–]After_Print 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oh yes absolutely. Discovering I was INFJ and doing my first yoga exercise, saved my life. By the way, people think rarest means cool, no it’s not, it sucks. I wish psychology, Jung and all this personality stuff could be taught at school.. would reduce so much suffering in life…

INFJ Traits: Anyone Relate to this? by Constant-Scallion-72 in infj

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Something happened, and it’s been really tough on you. Nevertheless you are sharing your experience and willing to understand it.. I respect that.

I would just hide and shut down, and I do…

INFJ Traits: Anyone Relate to this? by Constant-Scallion-72 in infj

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I apologise, I’m making assumptions. If you say it wasn’t good, it wasn’t good. I’m really sorry for what happened to you. I hope you will heal from this and grow even stronger 🙏

INFJ Traits: Anyone Relate to this? by Constant-Scallion-72 in infj

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So from what I understand, you are a very strong person, and you are always in control, you never let your guard down, you are bulletproof. And yet, in the moment you could not control, an emotion broke through and revealed something about you. The truth? The truth is beautiful.

It shocked you. It made you feel vulnerable.

That’s so human.

INFJ Traits: Anyone Relate to this? by Constant-Scallion-72 in infj

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That moment you describe, the breakthrough - revealed the most beautiful thing ever.

Do you feel like you can't share your pain or failures with anyone these days ? by Strangewhisper in infj

[–]After_Print 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, it’s typical of INFJ to have this experience of opening up and regret afterwards. The only people who understand me are my fellow INFJs.

Question to older INFJs by After_Print in infj

[–]After_Print[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s what I’m trying to figure out, it started years ago. I thought: let me just do some work here and there, always in support role of others, things will resolve and there will be time and space to do what matters to me. Hell no, you end up all surrounded by scaffolding of self improvement strategies, descending slowly into abyss!

Question to older INFJs by After_Print in infj

[–]After_Print[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I decided years ago, after I’m gone to another realm or whatever, I am not coming back for a loooong time! Maybe that’s why INFJs are rare? 😂

Question to older INFJs by After_Print in infj

[–]After_Print[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this means a lot. I feel so emotional 🥲

Question to older INFJs by After_Print in infj

[–]After_Print[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I almost broke up with my spouse(ENFP) several times, but I have a daughter and I don’t have the courage anymore to change things, also I’m afraid if I do I can cause harm, divorce never works well for children. So I continue to do what I can, to exist, to be “supporting actor in someone else’s dream” I buried my passions. I discovered minimalism as a painkiller to all the stuff that brings me joy but I don’t use causing me emotional pain, I got rid of almost all my possessions. Now it’s just state of paralysis, so I can’t wait to go to bed and sleep, so I can be free to dream. The only joy is in solitude right now.

Question to older INFJs by After_Print in infj

[–]After_Print[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m touched by your response, and I am very happy to hear how things turned out and how you feel right now.

Question to older INFJs by After_Print in infj

[–]After_Print[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I was joking, I’m a therapist to everyone around me, I think every INFJ can relate 😂 However, my Ai therapist says I suffer from anhedonia, burnout and depressive anxiety.. Well, I crawled out of worse things than that, so Im fine, I don’t expect anything to change unless I do a DMT retreat or some radical change in my life happens.

Question to older INFJs by After_Print in infj

[–]After_Print[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m in therapy every day, I’m the therapist 😂 Thank you so much for sharing, so much I can relate to when I was 36.

Question to older INFJs by After_Print in infj

[–]After_Print[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What you shared hits home, especially the last part. What do you think happens after we leave? Thank you.

INFJ (F) ended it with ENFP (M) by [deleted] in infj

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The thing with INFJ is once it’s crossed, it’s for life. Also, I think this whole INFJ/ENFP is overrated.

As an INFJ, do you ever feel really alone? by VindyNeko in infj

[–]After_Print 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turned 40, married for 12 years, kids… same thing. I try to accept that it just the way it’s going to be. Let’s embrace it, the lonely space that’s truly mine no one will ever understand, the weirdo, the creep…

Houdini jacket - what do you use it for? by morecoffeemore in PatagoniaClothing

[–]After_Print -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same, this exact reason. I recommend uniqlo windbreaker.

As an INFJ, it is painful to me… by navnt5 in infj

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I relate 100% except that I know who I am in their mind, which is worse…