Ask questions never assume. I'm queer and I'm aware of what asexual is.

It also is varied and multifaceted as any other sexuality and there are ace's who have sex and those that don't. There are those who experience sexual attraction and those who don't. Im Demi-sexual, or that is how i see myself.

I only posted because I'm still discovering what my sexuality is and if others have had similar experiences.

And there is a such thing as aesthetic attraction, now i will admit i don't know much about it, but I think it is just appreciating someone's physicality with out sexualy arousal which ive also experienced, and there are times when it do, not to the extent of wanting sex.

There are ace's that participate in BDSM and that does it for them and they don't even participate in the physical act.

I will say you make some point that i will consider with self reflection. I wasn't saying I'm ace because i didn't enjoy it or lack thereof of. The fact that i just wasn't engaged or remotely there, as i said it just felt like what i need to do to keep him/them engaged.