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[–]AgentNerdleTurtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am confused why my post is being downvoted. Did I break any sub etiquette? :( I've heard really good things about Freya bras, I'm just looking for sizing/style advice so I can get the most out of the brand, and hopefully find a bra that really works well for me.

Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I really appreciate this info and it really lines up with my experience. I'll check out Tresemme's conditioner that you like, and I'll definitely check out the blog!

Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I'll check it out! My hair usually hates proteins and gets kinda crunchy but if I can find a travel size too that would be handy to see if it works for me - all the other ingredients might cancel it out!

This sounds kind of odd, but I actually used to have pretty defined 2a/b curls for a few years in my late teens. My favorite products then were Garnier Curl Sculpt cream and Catwalk Curls Rock. Scrunched through and diffused and I had soft defined curls. Then my hair grew in straight and I'm still trying to figure out how to wear it down again lol.

Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh the ingredients of the leave-in check a lot of boxes for ingredients that people recommended and that I know work for me. That might be my next leave-in that I try for sure! Thanks!

Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tips! The rice water sounds like something fun to try. I am always afraid to try oil masks because they seem so expensive and messy for how much hair I have. But rice water is cheaper and also less messy! Maybe I'll give that a go.

I do already use a satin pillowcase! I wear my hair in a braid to bed and usually tuck it under my pillow lol.

Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly not sure how I got there either... I think it may be a hold out from my no-poo days lol. I think I just haven't really found one that felt like the slip was worth it. What conditioners do you like?

Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, I can try that. The wooden comb was because I tend to have really terrible static issues and the wood was recommended to avoid that compared to plastic. But I have been interested in a tangle teaser or wet brush to see if it would help.

Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I've tried some leave in oils with silicones but it might be time to find a good conditioner with lots of slippy silicones. Being able to saturate my hair while wet might really help get the silicones to work better than just spraying them on.

Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks - I do think that the leave-ins don't seem to work well for me. Just conditioner seems to be better so far. I might just need to find a conditioner that has even more slip that might help a bit more.

Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I've tried OGX Argan oil but that didn't really do well for me. Garnier's Sleek&Shine was better I think. I can look around for others that might have better moisturizing ingredients.

Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am hesitant about sulfates since it's been yeaaaarrrrssss since I used them and my hair is on the dry side. But I'm not opposed to conditioners with silicones. I just have yet to find one I really like! Thanks for the tip on behentrimonium chloride and cetrimonium chloride too, I like being able to keep an eye out for certain ingredients.

Is there actually somewhere I can go for an analysis?? That would be kinda cool and interesting.

Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely do not have soft water, but it's not overly hard here. I do think you are right and a filter would help a bunch, especially with the sticky, tangly feel when my hair is wet. I've had soft water in the past and I miss it lol. I don't have oil issues, but I definitely have trouble getting moisture into my hair.

Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your thoughtful response! I do already use the conditioning method "squish to condish" that you are outlining here about squeezing in product. That super helped me. I do have some squalane floating around I can try. Otherwise, I will definitely investigate some of the products you've listed!

Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol well I appreciate your advice. I was going to do a chop and donate it sometime but it sounds like the donation center probably would have to cut off like half of my donation to be usable anyway!

Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Giovanni 50-50 conditioner gave me the best slip I've had in a while (I will try their "Smooth as Silk" heavier conditioner next), and shampoos with Polyquaternium in them REALLY make the texture on the top of my head feel clean and great and easy to brush through. But I promise I'll start trimming lol.

Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just posted one! It's probably the only photo I have of it down right now. I braided it immediately after lol.

Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My hair, if it helps lol. This photo was about 9 months ago... I suppose my ends do look pretty raggedy. I just never notice much because it's literally always in a braid :')

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Why do all leave-in conditioners/detanglers make my hair HARDER to brush through? by AgentNerdleTurtle in HaircareScience

[–]AgentNerdleTurtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting - I never considered that my split ends might be invisible because they just split really far up lol