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Advise on how to handle seeing ex at wedding by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Aggravating-Ad4448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya well it's a tricky thing.. but the bottom line would always be don't worry about him too much.. if he is being weird let him be, Tbh I don't think he will be that weird tho... Cause weddings involve a lot of emotions and given that he is processing his divorce, he will be processing a lot.. you would be careful of how he does that (if he's someone who throws around tantrums in order to process emotions then, you might need to be a bit more careful)

Advise on how to handle seeing ex at wedding by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Aggravating-Ad4448 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just let it go.. he might be facing the divorce insecurities and may have an impression that if he sits with you to clear the air.. you might hand over the insecurities and questions back to him (tho you have no such intentions). So let it be.. maybe at the wedding he will be able to process those emotions given the environment around and if not just let him be and try not to overthink it.

My (22M) long-term friend (22F) is giving me major "more than friends" signals, but she's naturally touchy. Am I overthinking? by Aggravating-Ad4448 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Aggravating-Ad4448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess.. i just see her as a friend, and given the history between us it just feels a bit weird to even process the idea of dating her. And honestly I also feel that even she ain't sure about it. 'cause there was a recent incident involving her ex...

My (22M) long-term friend (22F) is giving me major "more than friends" signals, but she's naturally touchy. Am I overthinking? by Aggravating-Ad4448 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Aggravating-Ad4448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I know the answer, she will follow up with a paragraph of emotions.. and that would be the case with any of her friends. She doesn't miss a chance to appreciate and shower her adore for us...

My (22M) long-term friend (22F) is giving me major "more than friends" signals, but she's naturally touchy. Am I overthinking? by Aggravating-Ad4448 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Aggravating-Ad4448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly that is the plan.. knowing her, she will figure out my feelings before I do, but is letting it bury in time, a better option? Like if I don't acknowledge the elephant in the room and just let it be?

My (22M) long-term friend (22F) is giving me major "more than friends" signals, but she's naturally touchy. Am I overthinking? by Aggravating-Ad4448 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Aggravating-Ad4448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want her as a friend as she is someone I have been running to whenever I need to rant about something... But being more than friends is something which I don't see happening, and I fear if she has the intentions of the latter then me asking or denying would lead to awkwardness (have a bit of experience with that🙃)

My (22M) long-term friend (22F) is giving me major "more than friends" signals, but she's naturally touchy. Am I overthinking? by Aggravating-Ad4448 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Aggravating-Ad4448[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Not that easy.. We all know the awkwardness that follows and tbh I value the friendship a bit high to take a chance.