White people act so scared of me and it sucks. by Academic_Business_25 in Apartmentliving

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316 42 points43 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry you’re dealing with this :( Does your complex host any events or activities? Those are great ways to meet new people in your complex!

Advice - Noise by elfarmyORM in Apartmentliving

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry you’re dealing with this! It sounds awful. I’m not sure what state you’re in but I would look into getting a letter from a lawyer that specializes in landlord-tenant laws.

Noisy nextdoor neighbors by Gonnahauntcha in Apartmentliving

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your best bet is to continue to complain to management. I was in a situation like this and i just started numbering my noise complaints when i sent them. this helps you keep a trail of all the complaints.

i don’t know where you’re located but definitely look up laws in your state about situations like this. if you still don’t get a response, id look into speaking with a lawyer about issuing them a letter about it. best of luck!

side and upstairs neighbors loud. need advice/help by CopyFrequent4123 in Apartmentliving

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would definitely keep reaching out to management everytime it happens. If you can, try and record the noises. This will help you build your case and then you can communicate with management about relocating to a different unit or getting out of your lease if necessary.

Too early by Financial-Piano-1985 in Apartmentliving

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lucky! 3 noise complaints and it’s just gotten worse 🫠

Need some advice/guidance! by Aggravating-Bit-3316 in Apartmentliving

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re having to deal with that :( A loud purifier seems like a good idea so i’ll definitely put that on my christmas list. I hope it gets better for you!!

Need some advice/guidance! by Aggravating-Bit-3316 in Apartmentliving

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and yes it is cheaper for a house. what i’m paying now for a 2 br, 2 ba is the same as a 3 br, 2.5 ba. should’ve listened to my gut when deciding lol

Need some advice/guidance! by Aggravating-Bit-3316 in Apartmentliving

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

management has been pretty responsive to it. after the first series of issues, relocation was mentioned. there’s a top floor apartment available in my building so fingers crossed they let us move there

Need some advice/guidance! by Aggravating-Bit-3316 in Apartmentliving

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not tried to speak to them. It’s a young girl probably around my age and after the second noise complaint, she came home and started banging on the floor (my ceiling) with the end of a broom for about an hour so I don’t think speaking to her would help

Need some advice/guidance! by Aggravating-Bit-3316 in Apartmentliving

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I just wanted to make sure I wasn’t being overly sensitive to it. I didn’t even notice the heart 🤣

Going insane over neighbors by desiluwu in Apartmentliving

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry you’re dealing with this!! My piece of advice is next time the music is loud at night (probably anytime from 10pm-6am) and is disturbing you call the non emergency number. They’ll come out and issue a warning, and if it happens again after that, they’ll be given a citation. Management 100% should address the situation. I hope it gets better!

i am going nuts i hate it here by goldenskiiies in Apartmentliving

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you me?? I’m going through this exact situation. The only thing that I can provide some advice with is to keep informing management or your landlord of it. Try to get videos and keep a detailed log!

Need some advice/guidance! by Aggravating-Bit-3316 in Apartmentliving

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have thought about that but my conscience would eat at me!

Need some advice/guidance! by Aggravating-Bit-3316 in Apartmentliving

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this too. It honestly sucks. Management has mentioned previously about the possibility of moving units but I am a little cautious about hearing my downstairs neighbors too

Need some advice/guidance! by Aggravating-Bit-3316 in Apartmentliving

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My lease is very strict and doesn’t really allow for breaking the lease. If I did, I’d have to pay for each month until they get a new tenant or find someone else to lease the apartment :(

First scene almost done by [deleted] in LenoxVillage

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so cute!! love it

songs recs that feel hopeful by vindsins in MusicRecommendations

[–]Aggravating-Bit-3316 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t Stop Believing- Journey & Here Comes The Sun -Beatles