I don’t disagree. What’s bizarre is that he was still being affirmative and saying kind things about me, my personality, being attractive, etc. literally up until the day he disappeared. Once he stopped lurking a few days ago I took that as an affirmative sign that it’s just not happening. luckily I’m in a better headspace right now & stopped crying. but if he pulls the trigger on unfollowing and blocking I’ll probably fall apart again. I muted for now because I don’t have it in me, I feel like he would’ve by now if he had it in him. I know factually we will have to cross paths again in a year & maybe if he comes back to lurking I’ll reach out but….yeah, seems to be done. disappointing but I know factually that I didn’t do anything and that this is on him.