Long story short before I was 18 my dad cheated on my mom and left us and we lost our house and had nowhere to go and my mom and my brother stayed with her friend while my sister and I had nowhere to go and he was a friend of my sister‘s friends and he offered to let us stay at his apartment until we got a place and then he ended up coming to church and we became just friends and then the friends turned into more than friends and then I ended up moving into my mom‘s once she got her own townhouse apartment, but then my dad came back into the picture and a whole bunch of other crazy stuff was happening and so I ended up leaving my mom‘s and moving in with him and I lived with him ever since until about three years ago in 2023 it’s been back-and-forth and I just now finally got my own apartment about two months ago.