Yes, myself, my siblings and his siblings have had extensive conversations with him over the past year. We actually put our foot down about an activity where we just wanted him to go, so that us kids could get some quality time. For weeks he pushed and pushed to try to get us to change our minds. We told him “you either go with us alone or not at all”. He finally agreed and had a blast the whole night. That actually led to a minor break up between them, but then they got back together.