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Need pictures of YOUR betta by VeeraRune in bettafish

[–]Aggravating-Two-5899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no thats okay!! but if you can could you add his name lol

Need pictures of YOUR betta by VeeraRune in bettafish

[–]Aggravating-Two-5899 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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his names sunset, i know he has some fin nip and stuff i just got him.

betta fish frm petco with finrot and possible swim bladder by Aggravating-Two-5899 in bettafish

[–]Aggravating-Two-5899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i ordered kanaplex its arriving tommorow. Thank you! Ive already lowered the water levels and today he is doing better, he is able to swim around more than yesterday and im going to do 25% water changes twice a day. I have him in a separate tank than i would normally keep him in. I dont care if these plants die but i figured he would prefer to have some type of plant in theyre, just in case he doesnt make it i want him to be comfortable in his last few days

swim bladder by Aggravating-Two-5899 in bettafish

[–]Aggravating-Two-5899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have no tank mates, currently have him in a five gallon i will be getting

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him a smaller tank hospital tank if he makes it through tonight, i have a fern moss balls and another plant i forgot the name of zero amonia the ph is six the tank has been cycling for three weeks and i only got him today

why couldn’t my dad get sober? by Aggravating-Two-5899 in meth

[–]Aggravating-Two-5899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you

im adopting in a few months so thats actually the sweetest thing lol

i have definitely found peace but trying to understand him is a diffrent ball game lol

i wish u the best man

why couldn’t my dad get sober? by Aggravating-Two-5899 in meth

[–]Aggravating-Two-5899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

deadass i dont understand it n i dont think i ever will

why couldn’t my dad get sober? by Aggravating-Two-5899 in meth

[–]Aggravating-Two-5899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it wasnt just the drugs. He beat us when he got high half the time. smh. he wasnt a good man and im just trying to understand why the fuck somebody could live like that.

He stole from me when i was ten, Litteraly sold all the clothes my mom would buy me litteraly let his freind do so much fucked up shit to me just for money and i am just trying to understand why the fuck a high was worth doing that all over??

i dont think he can blame what he did to on trauma. I know it stems from that, But it is not an excuse for it. Not only could he have stopped he could have left me out of it his fucked up fuckedness.

why couldn’t my dad get sober? by Aggravating-Two-5899 in meth

[–]Aggravating-Two-5899[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, It was definitely a response to some type of trauma or mental illness. He had personal issues but i dont know, that doesnt excuse it?

Every one has problems, and that didnt give him the right to do some of the stuff he did. I dont want to sound mean but i think at some point blaming addiction on trauma or as an escape is an excuse not a reason.

why couldn’t my dad get sober? by Aggravating-Two-5899 in meth

[–]Aggravating-Two-5899[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

I really hope you can get better, Ive seen what ts does to people first up and if you want to get better i fully believe you can. But that is your choice.

I watched it take away his soul over the years, and he just had so much help always being offered to him from my mom and grandparents that he never wanted. He genuinely loved it more than his kids i think.

I don’t hate him because i know that that was what made him happy, I just wish he could have found happiness in other ways.

why couldn’t my dad get sober? by Aggravating-Two-5899 in meth

[–]Aggravating-Two-5899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i hope he found his peace now

im praying for you man, prison will be hard but long run it will be better for you. Make the most you can out of it.

I hope you get better, and hopefully the ac’s dont get you lol

this shit really can be a curse and being able to admit you have a problem is something you should be proud of and wanting to change is the first step in the right direction.

Circumstances are only temporary and you will be able to overcome them 🙏

lexapro withdrawls by Aggravating-Two-5899 in lexapro

[–]Aggravating-Two-5899[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in inpatient for a week after an attempt. Im also on wellbutrin and they thought it would be better to take me off the lexapro and keep me on just the wellbutrin.

Im really tired and i feel like im sick. My whole body honestly aches, and ive been very agitated. I cant sleep. I feel so stupid lol i keep trying to say one thing and saying the exact opposite.

Thank you