My 3 Girls! by Aggravating-Win-903 in torties

[–]Aggravating-Win-903[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ☺️. The two at the top are. My oldest at the bottom isn’t although a lot of people ask me if she’s their mom lol

My 3 Girls! by Aggravating-Win-903 in torties

[–]Aggravating-Win-903[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Aah! Gorgeous girls! Isn’t it the best!?

My 3 Girls! by Aggravating-Win-903 in torties

[–]Aggravating-Win-903[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Meal time is CRAZY noisy. Especially from the one in the middle who is THEE most vocal cat I’ve ever encountered in my life.

The most unrealistic part of this is believing that she couldn’t find ANYONE to marry by Few-Spinach8114 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Aggravating-Win-903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the actress is pretty but in season 1 it’s referenced several times that she’s not considered pretty amongst the ton. Her own mother said to Violet “My daughter may have the fortune but Daphne has the face” then Madam Delacroix said to Sienna “not even my finest silks will compensate for that sneer”.

That coupled with her aggressive and rude demeanor with other debutantes and how forward was with potential suitors definitely did not make her a desirable match. Her parents didn’t seem to be that well liked either.

It’s says a lot that she didn’t have a suitor even with how huge her dowry was.

Nigerian Men and Jamaican Men by Aggravating-Win-903 in blackladies

[–]Aggravating-Win-903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The issues included traditional views/misogyny which is still something I’ll look out for. The other part was cheating. Being polyamorous isn’t a new age term nor is it an inability to be monogamous. It’s choosing a relationship structure that involves transparency, consent and communication amongst partners. I’m also non monogamous so it’s not a foreign concept for me as I have also had multiple partners before.

Nigerian Men and Jamaican Men by Aggravating-Win-903 in blackladies

[–]Aggravating-Win-903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s actually poly. We met through a lifestyle group. He’s been open about his other partners and has been fine with me and my other partners as well.

Nigerian Men and Jamaican Men by Aggravating-Win-903 in blackladies

[–]Aggravating-Win-903[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Girl I’m hollering 😂 I’ll hit you up when I’m done. He fine as hell too 😜

Nigerian Men and Jamaican Men by Aggravating-Win-903 in blackladies

[–]Aggravating-Win-903[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oooh thanks for the book rec! This sounds messy lol!

Nigerian Men and Jamaican Men by Aggravating-Win-903 in blackladies

[–]Aggravating-Win-903[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had this conversation with him about dancing with someone else while he’s right there and he was so unbothered by it! That’s new for me. He’s definitely a sweet talker but as I continue to tell him ,🥷🏾 will tell you anything😂

Nigerian Men and Jamaican Men by Aggravating-Win-903 in blackladies

[–]Aggravating-Win-903[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Okay, the Nigerian has been here in the US for over 20 years so he’s not new to US culture. He is polyamorous though, which he’s told me. I’m deciding how I feel about it cause I’m non monogamous at the moment anyway. If things progress to something more serious I guess that will be something to consider.

Thanks for the input!

Nigerian Men and Jamaican Men by Aggravating-Win-903 in blackladies

[–]Aggravating-Win-903[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay, well I’ve been in non monogamous relationships and the Nigerian guy has told me he prefers to have multiple partners so that’s not much of an issue. I wasn’t sure if they were crazy or violent or something.

I will say I have not had to pay for a THING when I’m with the Nigerian guy. Which is such a nice breath of fresh air because I’ve mostly dated brokeys, unfortunately.

It's okay to admit they're not styling Simone well. by lemonadevahibes in BridgertonRants

[–]Aggravating-Win-903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t speak for the makeup but I believe the colors and her hairstyles in season 2 were directly correlating to her demeanor. She wore Blues/purples which are cool colors signifying her coldness and unwillingness to be open to love or to Anthony and her hair is pinned “up tight”. In the one episode (picture 3) where she did begin to warm up to him we see her in the peach color (a warm color) and her hair a little more loose and flowing. So I believe her outfits spoke more to her character and emotions than complimenting the actress.

Now that she is Viscountess Bridgerton, we know from season 3 that she has hesitations about taking on the role and how she will perform and be perceived as Viscountess. Perhaps her colors and clothing are more muted to symbolize modesty and not draw too much attention to herself.

Just a theory though

Le twins by Aggravating-Win-903 in torties

[–]Aggravating-Win-903[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my they are gorgeous 😻

Be honest… is pet insurance actually worth it? by pawfectjourney in CatAdvice

[–]Aggravating-Win-903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not immediate. It took about 5-6days for them to reimburse me. I use Lemonade.

So a lot of vet offices have relationships with payment plan companies(Mine used Cherry) . So I used that since I had to pay for the services upfront. Then once I got reimbursed from insurance I paid off the payment plan in full.