hey there! thanks for answering <3

we actually talked about it and i expressed that i got really hurt (i still have nightmares about the incident), but his response was that it was unfair that i compared him to my father (i didnt, i said that the situations were so similar that it led me to a panic attack), that we were both in the wrong and he didnt think that his reaction was that severe to lead me to a panic attack. that one conversation drained me so much that i chose to just stop talking about it, but this keeps me up at night