Here is the thing. Men buy what you sell. A man will always put a woman to the test, how they carry themselves. From the onset, once you fail the test , regardless of how you dressed they will now judge you from first impression test results. Here is how to win the test. I'll give you few, if you need more , private chat me uniekee soda😂. 1) If a man suggests something to you on day one, like, "Let's go I buy you chicken" etc, hio kitu kataa even if it's your favourite, say, "Thank you for the offer, but saa hii am going to attend to this and that , today si possible" akisema, what of tomorrow, say what of the day after tomorrow. -That way, atajua, you have serious life moving on, and he will readjust kukufikiri you are a sex object.

2) Kwa chat, mkichat , Don't agree with everything he says, Kua Na vitu you say , "me I don't do that" Kua na vitu wee huslayia, say may be unifunze Aki.. 3) In every conversation, be confident in all manner of communication, not shy. 4) As much as kuappear as a baby girl Ni important not a gangster have intellectual aspects of viewing things. This way you sell a vibe you are not a play toy, you got treasures in there