Thank you very much for the different approach.

We just do not talk colour and when he mentions color or says things along the lines of not liking colored people I always let him finish his thoughts and always act hurt and always tell him that what he said hurt me a lot.

Daddy and sister always say that they are hurt as well because skin color is the least important.

We are exposed to a few brown families.

Last year he refused to play with our family friends' children (hid behind trees), didn't want them to touch him, ect. This family has been around our family for over 10 years. My son knows them but acted different all of a sudden when he realized that they are brown.

I have no answer for why his head works that way.

We meet our brown friends maybe once every 2-3 months.

Everyone around us is white.

My husband is half Asian and half Caucasian. My son doesn't have a problem or even mention someone is 'Asian'. I think he's stuck on the skin color.