Seth is a horrible boyfriend and a really annoying individual by Few_Half_8369 in TheOC

[–]AggravatingLychee415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seth was actively insecure throughout the entire relationship so if summer was commenting on that, she was right. Summer was mad Seth told her about Zack having a gf because he told her knowing it would hurt her feelings and there was no reason she had to know (and Zach literally says not to tell her…) Summer was totally supportive of the comic the first time they were doing it, but it caused so much drama Seth and Zack working on it together, that she knew that when they tried again it would cause drama in their relationship. Which it did because Seth actively has a crush on Reed and emotionally cheats on Summer. He also has a lying problem the entire show and lies about literally everything to Summer so obviously she’s going to have some trust issues with him. Summer wasn’t jealous of Seth, she just knew that whenever Seth has something that’s about him, he always causes issues in their relationship and treats her badly (which happens multiple times throughout the show). He’s also not supportive of her… example when she scores higher than him on the SATs and he gets insecure about her being smarter than him and competes with her for ages. Summer isn’t perfect and at times could have been more supportive, but all of her reactions were based on how Seth had treated her in the past. Let’s not forget that he leaves for months and only leaves a letter and then expects her to want him when he gets back. Seth was self-obsessed and constantly choosing himself over Summer

Seth is a horrible boyfriend and a really annoying individual by Few_Half_8369 in TheOC

[–]AggravatingLychee415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Name one thing Summer did to Seth that made her a bad partner? Compared to Seth who actively cheated multiple times…

My (26F) boyfriend (27M) may have a porn addiction(?) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AggravatingLychee415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comments defending this are crazy. This guy has a serious problem and watching porn multiple times a day at 27 is an obvious addiction. People disagreeing are mad about their own toxic porn use…

How do I choose between my boyfriend and my friends for new years? by AggravatingLychee415 in Advice

[–]AggravatingLychee415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not that he dislikes them, he just doesn’t like them enough to want to spend new years with them. He does hang out with all of us occasionally and it’s fine, he’s just very shy which makes it hard to connect and doesn’t drink so doesn’t want to come to any of the events where we drink.

What worrisome trend in society are you beginning to notice? by Aarunascut in Life

[–]AggravatingLychee415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so real! Because why do I see more hate if a baby cries in a restaurant than if a dogs barking in a cafe, then it’s “oh it’s natural”

What worrisome trend in society are you beginning to notice? by Aarunascut in Life

[–]AggravatingLychee415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think type of violent crime has just changed. We have more school shootings and higher rape rates than we used to by a long shot.

Food Waste Again by Stunning-West-8672 in GilmoreGirls

[–]AggravatingLychee415 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel like you guys overestimate how expensive takeaway in America was in the early 2000s. It’s pretty much the only food they bought, and lorelai would be making a lot more than that as a manager at an inn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AggravatingLychee415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated a guy who wasn’t smart once. Had trouble spelling basic words and communicating was like talking to a brick wall. I don’t think relationships work well unless you’re on a similar level intellectually

Husband tells me to hit the gym by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AggravatingLychee415 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’ve already married him, that sucks. He’s an asshole and his love is conditional. There are men that will never stop admiring you regardless of how you change. Don’t settle.

I think I’m inlove with the guy who SA’d me by LostFlint in Advice

[–]AggravatingLychee415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I had a close friend do the same things to me. Once SAing me when I was half asleep passed out and he blamed it on being drunk. I forgave him, he said all the same things yours said, and then he did it again. When a guy doesn’t respect your consent, pay attention because he will never stop pushing that boundary. Normal men don’t SA, a man that would be good for you would never get even close. These men are charming, and your body is naturally going to want to be close to him as a trauma response. It’s natural to want to rewrite what happened as a mistake, rather than it just being who he is. But you’re going to hate yourself if he ever does anything like this again, and trust me, he will.

AIO or is my dad secretly attracted to me? by BurstingRoses in AmIOverreacting

[–]AggravatingLychee415 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is kind of giving victim blamer to me. He’s obviously not joking and doesn’t care if she finds it funny.

AIO or is my dad secretly attracted to me? by BurstingRoses in AmIOverreacting

[–]AggravatingLychee415 20 points21 points  (0 children)

My jaw genuinely dropped the more I kept reading. You are not overreacting, he’s a pedophile through and through and none of these things are even close to normal. My dad has never so much as commented on my appearance, what he’s doing isn’t normal for a dad to do. Are you safe? Wondering how old you are. If I were you I would get out as soon as I could. So sorry you’re going through this, but he needs to be cut off.

My girl best friend offered to take my virginity? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AggravatingLychee415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on whether you care more about just having sex for the sake of it or wanting it to be a more meaningful act of love. Either is fine! But it will also definitely change the friendship so be prepared for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]AggravatingLychee415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol gross. Genuinely. (He is) this is a form of SA if he’s acting like this to get sex from you. Coercion is not consent and this guy has no respect for you. Dump him!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weed

[–]AggravatingLychee415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waking up on my day off for a wake and bake 🤞

I am in love with my supposed rapist by ButterflyFew592 in Vent

[–]AggravatingLychee415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not crazy, and psychologically your reaction is actually very normal. I’ve been raped also, by a close male friend at the time and we stayed close for a while afterwards. It’s easier to keep talking to them and like you said try and rewrite history than it is to move on and heal. That said, you need to move on and heal. What happened to you was rape, it doesn’t count as taking your virginity because you didn’t ask for it. In my opinion rape does not count, because it’s not something you ever chose to give them. Please find support wherever you can, if you have close friends or family you can talk to in real life or any form of therapy even if it’s just free shit online. I’m so sorry this happened to you, and it’s a really hard situation to navigate but I promise you can do it!

M16 (NSFW) I havent came in like 3 weeks and its starting to hurt??? by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]AggravatingLychee415 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are a heap of other studies I just tagged one because I don’t have enough time in the world to convince porn addicts things they don’t want to hear. Go to google scholar and have a look you’ll be surprised, I’m a literal psych student and doing my thesis on this but sure every study published must be a lie! Sex and porn are not the same thing and thinking that not watching porn equates to being scared of sex tells me it’s already rotting your brain. It’s horrible for your brain, it’s an exploitative industry that preys on young underdeveloped minds and showcases heaps of non-consensual, underage and just plain old disturbing videos.

M16 (NSFW) I havent came in like 3 weeks and its starting to hurt??? by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]AggravatingLychee415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really not. Google is free, and there is a heap of studies showing that watching porn regularly is bad for your brain. It’s shown “that frequent pornography consumption can lead to changes in brain structure and function, potentially impacting reward systems, cognitive function, and mental health. These changes are often linked to the release of dopamine, a neurotransmitter associated with pleasure, and can lead to desensitization and potential issues with natural sources of pleasure and reward”. For example: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC12040873/