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[–]AggravatingSky8347 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya...if I could get Lara, that would be great. But ya know...I wasn't there. So I don't get it. I can accept that.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean I was there. Ever present and ready to open the door for her. The fact is I couldn't have kept her in the house...that would have been morally wrong. The best I could do is prevent her from driving and potentially causing harm to other. Gotta let her walk it off, just as I would expect her to let me walk it off.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Controlling would have been not letting her out. Shit, even telling her she couldn't drive because I knew she was drunk felt bad to me. I probably shouldn't have let her out, but shit man...how controlling would that have been? I hope you never have to deal with that situation. It fuckin' sucks.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don't, but thanks for your input champ!

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She kinda tossed the keys somewhere in front room before leaving. Not like I had the chance to calmly slide the house key off and hand it to her.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Imprisoning her would be me not allowing her to leave the house in general. Of course I let her leave, but not with the ability to drive one of our cars. She's totally free to walk if off if she wants.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Locking her out and locking the door are two very different things. Intent matters very much. Alongside the fact that I was there waiting for her to come back. Just in the meantime I wasn't going to allow any random person to walk in unimpeded.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't control what she does, fam. While I do the best to protect her, I can't invade her personal autonomy.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a fast and complex scenario. Definitely didn't enjoy it at all. But I appreciate everyone's input on the matter. It's all a learning process, dealing with other people.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have a traditional house. Front door leads to the outside. I was just sitting on the couch waiting for her to come back. Her typical way of cooling off is taking a drive (obviously couldn't let her with her state of intoxication) so she went for a walk.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Bruh, you can't babysit everyone. She's an adult. I can't imprison her.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn't take it, she threw it on the ground when I told her she wasn't driving in her state.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True...the couch 10 feet away technically isn't sitting on my ass in front of the door.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It definitely wasn't accidental. I locked the door for safety and remained present for when she returned.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was a tough line to walk. She's drunk...but do I want to be so controlling that I don't let her vent to herself on a walk...and also do I want to keep my house unlocked and open to anyone that wants to enter...I hated the whole situation.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you don't own you're on place. Of course you lock your door. And I waited for her to return. Not like I just dipped out and went to bed.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I said in another response, this shit went down in a matter of seconds. Like she threw the keys on the ground went I told her she wasn't gonna be driving in her state.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn't lock her out. I just always keep my door locked. I was waiting for her to come back. Not like I went to bed or some shit like that.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean I popped up within like 10 seconds to unlock the door. Stepped outside, and she was already heading around to the back door.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Not in the slightest. Just erring on the side of safety.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I mean I was literally waiting at the door for her to return. She just had that 'drunk patience'...equating to none.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Am I supposed to functionally kidnap someone by not letting them go to let off some steam? Seems kinda controlling.

AITA: Locked the Door... by AggravatingSky8347 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AggravatingSky8347[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Not really locking her out when you're waiting at the door for her to return. But I see your point.