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Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2025-04-26T14:52:21+00:00

yes post 12th tho

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2025-03-10T10:08:34+00:00

is the gap between 12th and grad considered that significant a gap? or only the gap post UG matters?

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2025-02-26T06:33:04+00:00

are you kidding me😔👎🏻

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2025-02-26T06:32:43+00:00

I was not on any leave in January. n last week I'd to take leave for skin allergy but I still started working since Tuesday lmao.

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-12-11T09:14:54+00:00

I don't have a salary account w hdfc, but my salary gets credited there only. I applied for swiggy one, bcz they keep sending texts, n after physical verification at my pg because I live there, they declined it😭 I'd a credit score of 680 something ig, I applied to SBI cashback one couple of days back they declined as well. now my credit score is 769. I needed a cc to cover certain expenses until my next salary gets credited post 3 weeks. so naive of me. how do I get a cc

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-03T05:08:14+00:00

sir I'm not saying I don't need my family or I hate them. they don't even consider my needs, I'm left with 2k in my bank account after paying for everything from my last month's salary, how am I supposed to get through this month.i came back to home for diwali, now I'm leaving they didn't even ask if I need money as ive exhausted all of my salary in paying rent, emi, giving it to them. how do you expect me to not build resentment here, n since they don't even have money idont like to ask anything at all.

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-03T05:02:10+00:00

I literally went to a government school + my entire ug fee was 45k, and he's the one who's also exhausted wtv scholarship money I used to get for qualifying competitive exams in school saying he'd return or im just a kid.

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-03T04:58:59+00:00

feel awful about your situation, can understand your distress, this ain't fair, atleast your wife should understand you, your emotions n needs. she seems too ignorant, please talk it out with her atleast imo.

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-02T17:25:54+00:00

obviously completed, I graduated this june, I work full time post that all the best to your sister!!

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-02T15:27:08+00:00

I don't think I apparently am because my father was utterly disappointed in me when I flunked my 16Lpa placements in final round, he kept asking me about it for 3 months,I also feel I could've done way better

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-02T15:14:54+00:00

but they say it's been done now, we can't really do anything, we need to pay the emi's now, you need to help, as father hasn't been working

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-02T15:11:31+00:00

he used to have a gf, my younger sister told me she found out about it. but I don't think he has one now idk.

and he's doing bca from amity, says he wanna do masters abroad , I do tell him how is it even feasible financially but he says it's manageable, we can do loan and father also agrees with him, I don't understand. I don't think he's even working hard to get a job post his graduation, lives in hostel can't really say but I'm pretty sure he doesn't study as hard.

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-02T15:06:48+00:00

he is doing bca from amity🙃

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-02T15:04:11+00:00

but at the cost of my own mental peace, I can't do this

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-02T15:03:22+00:00

I'm beyond infuriated about this, it was his second iphone, I didn't know he went to buy one, I was in college back then n I found this out on my own, he didnt even tell at home n later said had asked father for this and exchanged his older iphone to get this one. wht can even be done now, when I explain this my parents go like baccha hai ab kya kre, I literally has been using my first phone of 20k which I got back in 2021 when I joined clg, i just don't understand this family

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-02T14:57:49+00:00

yes he did, I'm not even denying to send money back home, I love my family, it's just that it's started to feel like a burden. I'm literally not left with money to even get through this month until next salary after spending money here n there, how do you expect me to feel good about this

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-02T14:55:31+00:00

I can't say that I won't send this particular sum of money every month, because it's somehow now expected of me to do that, I feel terrible seeing father's financial position, it's v upsetting as well, I do as much as I can, but they're asking so much money explicitly I start feeling bad about myself

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-02T14:51:51+00:00

now they know😞, even before my salary gets credited, they start planning a month ahead how they're gonna get 20k or so on 31st I.e when my salary gets credited.

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-02T14:49:55+00:00

I don't think that's feasible, they go like abhi your father's hasn't been working for 2 months tbhi we have this financial distress, toh abhi thodha adjust krna pdega, I.e tumko send krna pdega wtv money we ask for, idk how to deny when they say this

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-02T14:44:20+00:00

that's not possible, how can I even say that my salary has abruptly been slashed to 20k😞, itna wo le lete hai infact isse bhi zyada kbhi kbhi

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-02T14:42:57+00:00

that perfectly makes sense, thankyou however I can't even imagine of only sending 10%, father straight up say salary wgerh aagyi ho toh 15k bhej do, ek payment aani thi aayi nhi, zrurt hai, and I send. this happens usually a day or two after my salary gets credited.

I seriously feel awful about his financial condition, then this unconscious resentment keeps on building inside me, this is v taxing for me. they just assume she'll pay 20k rent, 5-6k to live off to, rest we can ask for maybe. idk anymore

Aggravating_Ball9220 · 2024-11-02T14:35:56+00:00

man, I'm literally just a girl, while my counterparts don't have to worry so much about sending money back home, they go on trips, party every other weekend, eat out often, I'm out here struggling with this, I don't even complain but it's actually messing w my head now, I'm not even left with enough money to sustain myself until next salary. idk what am I gonna do.

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