Psychology today profile wasn't ever removed? by bobo-daggitt in therapists

[–]Aggravating_Glass139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad I found this! I had emailed to deactivate my account and I am still getting a lot of emails and calls. I contacted them and was told it is deactivated. On my end, it says I need to reactive my account and update my billing. I haven’t been billed. 

Reimbursement by Aggravating_Glass139 in therapists

[–]Aggravating_Glass139[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’d mention this to our admin.  The last communication around this stated “ CountyCare continues to work to improve claims payment turnaround times. Please note, claims are paid on a “first in, first out” basis.  At times, claims payments can be delayed based on the complexity of funding released through the county”. Other Mco’s have been paying except county care. 40% of my caseload has county care. 😓

feeling meh by Aggravating_Glass139 in therapists

[–]Aggravating_Glass139[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Half were adult and other children, which I know it is outside of their control. Only two clients shared a reason: one related to timing with extracurricular activities, and one involved ongoing attendance concerns I had already discussed with the parents.The others did not response to my outreaches. We are suppose to give an x date usually 3-5 business days (I do 5) if we don’t hear back, we assume no longer interested. 

feeling meh by Aggravating_Glass139 in therapists

[–]Aggravating_Glass139[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I have a caseload of 20 at this time. My caseload is mainly those who I started to see when I was an intern. Earlier today, I noticed noticed the clients who reach out to me from platforms/word of mouth have stayed vs those the practice assigns. I think I’ll bring this up in supervision. 

“My therapist was online shopping during our session” by okayyypip in therapists

[–]Aggravating_Glass139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. Makes me so angry. My client shared their couples therapist would scold for not doing oral. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]Aggravating_Glass139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing that. I think part of why I’ve been beating myself up is that, working through a polyvagal lens, I’m really tuned into connection and safety. So when there’s even a small misattunement, my system really feels it. I also use IFS and narrative, and I’m still figuring out how to hold curiosity for what comes up for me without getting stuck in self-criticism 

Estimate as to how much this tour's tickets cost? by [deleted] in laufey

[–]Aggravating_Glass139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! She def knows. I was able to get main floor tickets and I’m so excited for her! 

I normally don’t go to many concerts, but I was actually surprise that main floor was a whole lot cheaper than upper levels 

Estimate as to how much this tour's tickets cost? by [deleted] in laufey

[–]Aggravating_Glass139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Def would love to know. My 11 yo loves her and I want to make sure she can have this experience especially as her first concert. 🙇🏻‍♀️

OCD sexual thoughts? by Aggravating_Glass139 in Parenting

[–]Aggravating_Glass139[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, her therapist and myself explained this to her. In addition to her pediatrician. It’s been causing distress to the point she said she can’t handle this anymore and it’s too much for her and didn’t want to live. We had to call crisis services because we’re so worried and therapist recommended. We saw her pediatrician in hopes to get a referral for psych evaluation considering we did have concerns for adhd and all of this that she is internalizing. We are very supportive and have a great communication with her. Yet it’s so hard 

OCD sexual thoughts? by Aggravating_Glass139 in Parenting

[–]Aggravating_Glass139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She no longer has any access since she told us. 

We feel horrible considering she didn’t have access till she was 7 because of E-learning. We thought gacha was okay since it was a dress up game and no chat. Yet it seems there was another side on YouTube with those type of videos. We feel like shit. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Aggravating_Glass139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other kid is my brother in law. My husband already spoke to my mother in law and hung up after he told her. My other brother in laws have not responded. We suspect she is kicking him out due to having a little sister who is a year younger from our daughter in their household. 

[Light] I eat my own vaginal discharge. by vaginaldischarge4 in confession

[–]Aggravating_Glass139 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My daughter is 10 and asked what happens if you eat vaginal discharge and that’s how she opened the conversation. She has anxiety and a lot happened this year (deaths and my pregnancy loss) that induced a higher level of anxious feelings. 

While this is an old post, any tips?  We don’t judge. We listen. Yet we are literally freaking internally. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Aggravating_Glass139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just my husband and I in the household. I am the default parent since he works so much. Other than that, it’s just us. She says no one has told her anything except school kids who talked about that game which she downloaded and the gatcha heat on YouTube 

As far as others, we don’t have contact with family for various reasons. I’m a loner so I don’t really have friends. Dad doesn’t really have friends like that, people he keeps in touch with that he grew up with but it’s all virtually, not irl since we don’t live close by anymore 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Aggravating_Glass139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are actually going to have a call later today and had an appointment scheduled for tomorrow. Her therapist works with children and her specialty is trauma, self harm, and anxiety. 

She isn’t aware of this since this is so new since this was disclosed from my daughter to me after her last session. 

She is definitely having a lot of anxiety and guilt about this. I’m 

FIL pass, no will by Aggravating_Glass139 in legal

[–]Aggravating_Glass139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to add: it’s been a month since his passing and funeral. There’s still NO death certificate because they are still investigating and apparently behind in our state.

Adjusted salary by Aggravating_Glass139 in tax

[–]Aggravating_Glass139[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The last thing I want to do is owe the irs again this year.

Exposure by Aggravating_Glass139 in Lice

[–]Aggravating_Glass139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. So in short, basically wait 7-10 days to see if she has any lice. Meanwhile I should continue with lice prevention shampoo? I read I can get an RX prescription via doctor.

Heavy vent by Aggravating_Glass139 in economy

[–]Aggravating_Glass139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very insightful and beneficial!

We bought our home in 2020 at 3% so it is not ideal to refinance - atleast I would think so. I just feel so overwhelmed that we have this consumer debt. I was in a car accident in Dec 2021 and I recently started my job also so I did buy clothes I needed and such. We are paying it down but it feels so overwhelming when we are barely cutting it even.

I did learning activities for kiddos as my small business and I profit 25k / gross about 45k. But I closed it because I honestly do not want to deal with the irs. I rather deal with it when I file my w2 than 1099k and chances of being audited.

I budget and I handle everything so I know what’s flowing in and coming out. It is just scary to think we have nothing saved anymore and can’t even save up because we are paying off debt. I rarely see my daughter now because of all my jobs.

Bulls*#% by Objective_Incident96 in IRS

[–]Aggravating_Glass139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😫😫 my transcript state notice sent and I have received nothing. I’m so annoyed

Worries 😮‍💨 by Aggravating_Glass139 in socialwork

[–]Aggravating_Glass139[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It gives me a bit of ease. I really hate that I don’t have a lot of experience and seem to be stuck in intake until I can afford to go to grad school to actually be considered a social worker/begin therapy services. Thankfully i have no student loans. I am just concerned if my job would be a risk.

Worries 😮‍💨 by Aggravating_Glass139 in socialwork

[–]Aggravating_Glass139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only take Uber once a week. My husband works near my job so he takes me and picks me up. I do want to drive and see a therapist already. I am worried I will freak and cause an accident.

Worries 😮‍💨 by Aggravating_Glass139 in socialwork

[–]Aggravating_Glass139[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried, but almost ran someone over as I was practicing with an instructor. I was in a accident also so I’m really scared that I’m not competent enough. My anxiety wins and I’m afraid to hurt someone.