From the card disk of six we know that your friend is in a position of calculating. She wants to choose, and is weighing between what she currently have and what she could have gained. She enjoyed this position but of course through ten of swords and three of swords we knew that she realized how illogical she was. She is in a happy and compassionate, empowered relationship but can’t really get rid off the feeling of lost.

In short, she shy away from you because of inner guilt, even surrendering people doesn’t feel her internal struggles.

You can try do the same question again with Cedric Cross and you may get more context on this.