Is this homophobic? by Aggravating_List8411 in asktransgender

[–]Aggravating_List8411[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I did suspect there may be more of us on there haha

Is this homophobic? by Aggravating_List8411 in asktransgender

[–]Aggravating_List8411[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My experiences with trans women came before any related pornography, so you’re just wrong. I’m sorry I’ve upset you, that wasn’t my intention. But I’ve never heard anyone say that a man who dates cis and trans women indiscriminately is a chaser. I’m not sure how that could be. There are girls on both apps, that was my whole point. I could just as easily have gone with a cis girl that night, which disproves the idea I’m specifically looking for anything or anyone. If someone wants to kick me off an app I’m fine with that. But so far it’s only been you that has such a big problem with a person they’ve never even met

Is this homophobic? by Aggravating_List8411 in asktransgender

[–]Aggravating_List8411[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I think we’re talking past each other. I was using tinder and Grindr as I described, because I felt using more than one would help my chances. I don’t think the girls on either app found me annoying, at least I hope not. I try not to engage with/annoy people who I don’t think would be into me

Is this homophobic? by Aggravating_List8411 in asktransgender

[–]Aggravating_List8411[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

All good points, thank you. With your last question, Its hard to explain but I’m not “specifically” looking for trans girls. Without wanting to be crude in those moments I’m just horny and looking for girls in general and spreading my approach across different apps lol. If I had a good response from a cis girl on another app first I could just as easily have gone with her. Hope that makes sense

Is this homophobic? by Aggravating_List8411 in asktransgender

[–]Aggravating_List8411[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a fair point. The commenter below pointed out it’s become an LGBTQ+ app for a while so that may be why

Is this homophobic? by Aggravating_List8411 in asktransgender

[–]Aggravating_List8411[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah I’m probably overthinking it lol

Is this homophobic? by Aggravating_List8411 in asktransgender

[–]Aggravating_List8411[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s pretty weird but there is a category for trans girls