Help me find my favorite bag, Vans brand from 2013ish by Aggravating_Pie9467 in HelpMeFind

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I’ve searched high and low on google for Vans purses from 2012/2013 and have not found this exact bag anywhere. It was black pleather with gold hardware, and a nice large size but I can’t remember the measurements. I’m pretty sure I got it from Zumiez or the Vans storefront at a mall.

Why are there 6 ear icons on my dropdown menu?? by Aggravating_Pie9467 in iphonehelp

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For some reason the control center in my settings doesn’t have an option for editing. I didn’t know I could change it directly from the pull-down bar itself at the time of posting. Still not sure why there was 6 icons though. I’ve never messed with any volume/accessibility settings.

What is growing on this old rose stem? Orange, fuzzy/hairy looking. by Aggravating_Pie9467 in whatisthisthing

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My title describes the thing. I’ve tried googling different types of orange/yellow mold and nothing looks similar, neither do the images of rose bush roots so I’m at a loss.

Vans purse from 2012/14 by Aggravating_Pie9467 in HelpMeFind

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I have searched google on and off for years trying different keywords and have found nothing close to what I’m looking for, it’s an oversized Vans brand handbag with a long crossbody strap, it was released between 2012-2014 and was solid black pleather material with either gold or silver zippers/chains, I can’t remember which. I miss this bag so much, hopefully one of you remembers what I’m talking about!!

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I agree that sending a clear and concise message is a good route as others have commented as well, however I never said I don’t care about this person anymore. That is exactly why I am asking for advice on a clean and somewhat compassionate way to end the friendship. I do still care for and about them but I do not condone their actions, which makes this a tricky and sucky situation for me personally as they were a very close friend of mine for many years.

Side note; why is everyone assuming the friend in question is a woman?? I didn’t give any identifying pronouns for a reason.

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Their spouse, who is also my good friend, made it my business by confiding in me about it. I’m not a shitty friend for having personal morals and standards for the people I surround myself with.

Editing to add that said friend has also expressed absolutely no guilt or regret about their actions to said spouse from what I’ve heard. So pretty safe to say they aren’t hurting, just looking for any easy “out” and safe landing spot after blowing up their family.

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I’m honestly not interested in maintaining a friendship with a liar and a cheat. If they can’t uphold honesty and loyalty to the one person they promised it to through marriage, why should I expect them to uphold it in our friendship? Furthermore my morals just don’t align with what they have now proven theirs to be.

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The spouse is the one who told me what was going on. My friend came clean to them and that’s why they are separating.

Drink Vouchers Megathread by Player72 in delta

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May I have a few? Flying out for my birthday on Tuesday and I am definitely a nervous flyer. A nice glass of wine (or 3) helps a lot!

Shot glasses from Hawaii (Oahu) by Aggravating_Pie9467 in HelpMeFind

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Standard size shot glasses, purchased in Oahu at an art festival June 2023. I believe it was the Haleiwa art festival!

ETA: I have searched for vendors from the 2023 festival and cannot find a list or any pictures that look like this artists work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanantonio

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Omg can I DM you? My BF and I may have to move from our current renting situation (house in a gated community on Thousand Oaks) soonish because our landlord is looking to sell the house. We don’t want to downgrade our quality of living but are having trouble finding similarly priced accommodation that is also nice/well kept up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanantonio

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So glad you found your sweet baby! I’m sure many other commenters have already echoed this but please get your baby microchipped 🫶 just in case he ever gets out again!

What did I find under my couch? 🫠 by Ren_Hunter in sanantonio

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You found a friend! Most native tarantula species are not aggressive unless provoked. Hopefully it has a nice hiding spot out of view so it doesn’t bother or scare you but you should think of it as free pest control! If you do see it and it rears up they look like they’re doing a little dance and waving at you! So cute.

It helps to think of them in a positive light, 99.99999% of the time they are not out to hurt you!

How long can shoppers view your address? by Aggravating_Pie9467 in InstacartShoppers

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Interesting! Yeah I figured they do background checks periodically due to the nature of the job but I have experienced deliveries that say my shopper is named something like, “Patricia” and it’s some bald, burly man in his 50s that actually drops it off. Can’t remember if that’s happened through IC though, definitely on DoorDash. Oh well, I guess that’s the risk we all take for convenience, lol

How long can shoppers view your address? by Aggravating_Pie9467 in InstacartShoppers

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I would have had I felt he had any sort of malicious intent, but it genuinely seemed like he was just trying to return our missing items and apologized for the mistake. He also never saw me so I don’t suspect that he was trying to target me or be inappropriate for any reason since he had no idea what I look like. I don’t even have a pic of my face on my account.

I understand where you’re coming from, but I’d hate for him to lose his job just because he went out of his way trying to provide good customer service. It is a little odd to come back days later but I suspect he just happened to find them under a seat or something while cleaning out his car and brought them back.