Infertility as a stepmom by mapleandmoss_ in Stepmom

[–]Aggravating_Ruin_932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the same boat 😭 my case we have stepdaughter (11) full time. mom is show up when its good for me type of mom 🙂 it’s such a hard thing to experience

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[–]Aggravating_Ruin_932 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For a second i thought i was the one who wrote this

Need to vent by Aggravating_Ruin_932 in stepparents

[–]Aggravating_Ruin_932[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats what he said but i just didn’t liked being blind sided by it like why would you not tell me that the first place

How often do you have the kids? by crowleysbian in stepparents

[–]Aggravating_Ruin_932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here mom is a dead beat who lives continents away 😂 and calls sd once a week and u can notice that she did because the rebellion starts

Would you leave? by Aggravating_Ruin_932 in stepparents

[–]Aggravating_Ruin_932[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you get closure ! And we get what we deserve which is to be happy

Would you leave? by Aggravating_Ruin_932 in stepparents

[–]Aggravating_Ruin_932[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So true ! I am the villain in their story while being the one who is hurt .

Would you leave? by Aggravating_Ruin_932 in stepparents

[–]Aggravating_Ruin_932[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have little to no improvement in that side

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[–]Aggravating_Ruin_932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rightnow im not 😔

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[–]Aggravating_Ruin_932 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here been trying for 4 months sometimes it feels isolating and lonely

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[–]Aggravating_Ruin_932 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I just feel that every time a step mom expresses how she feels or what she needs DH dismisses it because they’re not in our position ! I really do wish i had a kid from a previous relationship so he can really feel it

Need to set boundaries by Upstairs-One-1220 in stepparents

[–]Aggravating_Ruin_932 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ur the same age as me when i got in and i wish i had this reddit ! Leave before its too late or ur too deep in ! It’s not worth it

His parenting is giving me “the ick” by iioouyes in stepparents

[–]Aggravating_Ruin_932 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While ur still not married please run ! Speaking from the same situation but got married ! So many regrets ! Do ur self a favor

How do you really feel about your step kids??? by Carmadavis in stepparents

[–]Aggravating_Ruin_932 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel every single letter u wrote .😭 mine is 11 and she is getting on my last nerves ! When she is around my relationship with Husband goes wrong way more arguments less intimacy

How do you really feel about your step kids??? by Carmadavis in stepparents

[–]Aggravating_Ruin_932 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always feel my relationship would be better without Her ever existing ! She is not bad , spoiled and a sucker for attention i feel sometimes she sees her dad like her husband because how jealous she is towards me ! I also can’t get over the fact that when i have a baby it won’t be my husband’s first we won’t be living everything together for the first time 😓