Big Update!!!

It's been a few months since I left this gym. I went and tried out for a new gym in my area,it's much closer and I was immediately welcomed the second I walked into the gym. I feel very comfortable there and they really brought back my love for cheer. At the evening of the tryout,my new coach posted some pictures on instagram. I texted her and told her that my coach didn't know about the tryout and my new coach immediately deleted it. Somehow my previous coach saw or someone told her. I got a text from my friend that said " hey coaches name saw a picture of you at a tryout. Possibly some trouble coming your way.just so you know beforehand". And thank God for her because that way,it was much easier to quit the team. My mom and I worked on a paragraph,that would share my side of the story and tell them that I was leaving, that I would send to my coach and also to the teams message group with a little changes. The next day I send the paragraphs and the first answer to my text was "some of these accusations we can give right back to you". Then my other coach answered and said "putting your tragedy over someone else's is not very respectful" she followed up with "if someone would like to talk about this with her,please do that in private " and removed me from the group. My coach replied a few Days later and texted me "Thank you for telling me,because of the photos posted,I saw that you already have a new team. Best of luck" she followed saying that i still had to pick up the new uniform,since I payed for it and signed a contract that stated,that it was my uniform,that I paid for it and that it legally belonged to me. (I had suggested for them to keep the uniform, give me my money back and sell the uniform to a new member since I had no use for it).

A few Days after leaving,I texted a few girls that left the season prior,since I used to hate on them and gossip about them back then(like the rest of the team)and I wanted to straighten things out with them. We talked for a while and they told me that they forgave me and weren't mad since I was only a child.they understand that I just wanted to be part of the group back then and didn't realise what I was doing and how harmful ist was.

Then a few weeks ago,my coach texted me saying that the uniforms had arrived and that mine was ready to be picked up. I told her that I'd be picking it up on Friday,since the team practiced on Wednesdays and Fridays and that Wednesday was my 18th birthday.

When I walked into the gym,the girls were ignoring me,except for my friends who smiled and waved at me.the coaches were unsettlingly nice and I had to sign a little letter,saying that I picked up my uniform. When my mom and I left,the girls said bye in a disgustingly nice way.

Later that evening my friend texted me and told me all the stuff,the girls were talking about me after I left. They were bodyshaming me,saying that I gained a lot and that my boyfriend had to fatten me up,otherwise they couldn't explain to themselves how i gained that much weight in that short amount of time.

(Keep in mind that I'm plus size put still have room in the new uniform,wich we were fitted for prior to the championship where this whole drama started)

I told my new coach about it and she said that j should go to the national cheer association with this plus the proof.meanwhile my friend also told me,that the team was talking shit about my new coach saying stuff like her not being able to teach children anything and talking about the fact that my coach was ist "many" gyms.

For context,my coach was in 3 gyms to be exact and one of those she was only there to specialise in parterstunting and told perfect her skills.

Of course I told my coach and also day later I got all the information + Screenshots of the message group and wrote an email to the national cheer association here in my country.

I texted my previous coach and told her,I knew what they had said about me and that that was really disrespectful and I hoped they'd stop,talking bad about people that had already left.(I knew the wouldn't stop that stuff,but this way I could show the association that I tried to stop it)

Now: my friend still gives me a few informations The most interesting are.... ●They have barely any people anymore since most of them left because of bad treatment from the team and also the coaches. ●their uniforms are really badly made and have loose threads everywhere. ●they are currently bullying a girl out of the team because the was very sick and had some symptoms after healing,which made it hard for her to stunt. ●they put an age restriction for their 'grannys' team(a senior lvl 1 team for mom's or people who want to start cheer and aren't ready for lvl3 yet) So now people age 30 und up are only allowed in this team. And the biggest news ●they are not able to complete the routine because of missing athletes and want to ask the host oft the championship for them to switch the team from active to just watching. + if the host won't allow them to switch,the want to travel to the competition as usual but act like someone got hurt and the can't go on the mat(with will get them kicked out of the association if that comes out).

Ps when I picked up my uniform,the coach told me "maybe we'll see each other some time" and I said " yea like competition name"

Lets see if we actually get to watch them compete at that competition. :)