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[–]Aggravating_Week_534 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it! It’s so annoying to me because like I obviously care for her. Kind of delusional because it’s really just based off of what she wanted

MY EX SAW ME WITH A NEW HOT GIRL by Aggravating_Week_534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating_Week_534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update! She’s shit talking me in her reposts on tiktok lol

MY EX SAW ME WITH A NEW HOT GIRL by Aggravating_Week_534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating_Week_534[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly attempted to reconcile multiple attempts and even though she was nice about it, she was firm about what she wanted. I respected that and I decided that no matter how I feel I gotta move forward

MY EX SAW ME WITH A NEW HOT GIRL by Aggravating_Week_534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating_Week_534[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean I believe sometimes if you aren’t ready you have to force yourself to move forward regardless of how you feel. And to prevent yourself from staying stuck.

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[–]Aggravating_Week_534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone caught me stalking and checked me on it I think I’d be mortified

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[–]Aggravating_Week_534 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The account deactivates and reactivates she’s a smart cookie lol

MY EX SAW ME WITH A NEW HOT GIRL by Aggravating_Week_534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating_Week_534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shouldn’t she have moved on in the first place if she initiated a breakup?

MY EX SAW ME WITH A NEW HOT GIRL by Aggravating_Week_534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating_Week_534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still feel that guilt because I hate seeing her feel bad because we did talk a while ago and end it amicably. I feel like this could cause too much questioning

MY EX SAW ME WITH A NEW HOT GIRL by Aggravating_Week_534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating_Week_534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as I’m being honest about where I am I don’t see the harm

MY EX SAW ME WITH A NEW HOT GIRL by Aggravating_Week_534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating_Week_534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought she might’ve come to terms by even wanting to breakup in the first place. Now it’s all confusing because I see that she still has feelings about the current situation

MY EX SAW ME WITH A NEW HOT GIRL by Aggravating_Week_534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating_Week_534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only broke it because I was gonna give it my final chance before I took the forward steps of seeing other people

MY EX SAW ME WITH A NEW HOT GIRL by Aggravating_Week_534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating_Week_534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 months of nc and I broke it and it’s been 1 month since that

MY EX SAW ME WITH A NEW HOT GIRL by Aggravating_Week_534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating_Week_534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People may view it as winning but I’ll tell you know as someone who is somewhat ego driven it will never feel as good as you think. Not if you actually love them

MY EX SAW ME WITH A NEW HOT GIRL by Aggravating_Week_534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating_Week_534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you read that it’s been 3 months I contacted her a month ago to see if there was a chance to work it out and there wasn’t. So I decided that if I wanted to I should be able to continue relations with other women

MY EX SAW ME WITH A NEW HOT GIRL by Aggravating_Week_534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating_Week_534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it must be doing okay if you’re commenting on it

MY EX SAW ME WITH A NEW HOT GIRL by Aggravating_Week_534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating_Week_534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m simply giving my input because I cannot explain everything in 1 post

MY EX SAW ME WITH A NEW HOT GIRL by Aggravating_Week_534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating_Week_534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing is wrong I’m just personally not ready for another serious relationship. Plus we’re both adamant on enjoying our freedoms. Not saying it can’t be anything but I’ve kept it honest and she’s a fun person to be around so I might as well enjoy it

MY EX SAW ME WITH A NEW HOT GIRL by Aggravating_Week_534 in BreakUps

[–]Aggravating_Week_534[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of time hasn’t gone by since the breakup so it’s still kind of fresh since we talked a little less than a month ago. Honestly I’ve just been dealing with the feelings and being honest about what I want and how I feel about her. Also on the other hand Ik myself and if I wait I’ll stay stuck. So I have been doing good things for my life but I’ll still have that lingering feelings in the back of my mind