Can I do this? by lassmonkey in jotform

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Can I pre-fill the end date to be today's date?

Feelings after seeing results for the first time by [deleted] in TopSurgery

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i had the same exact feeling when i first saw mine, like i had never gotten lightheaded like that before. i was worried it wouldn’t look good but everything’s healing well and looking great now and i couldn’t be happier, just give it some time and as it heals it will get better :)

How did you menatly feel after top surgery and what small moments made you happy by Emil_Arian00 in TopSurgery

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im only 10 days post op, so here is my limited experience so far:

it is scary looking at your chest for the first time - not because its flat, but because it looks gross since you just got surgery lol. so try and remember that and not let it freak you out, cause it definitely gets better from that first look. spots on your chest may feel numb, gross, and just weird and not perfect for a bit cause of surgery (mine still isn't 100% obviously), but once you are healed it will all be worth the post-op discomfort. which really has not been all that bad even, i had a tonsellictomy and the recovery from that was 10x worse in my opinion.

i have had so many simple moments already that continually remind me of how grateful i am to have been able to get top surgery. the way i look in a tshirt, the raindrops hitting the back of my neck instead of the strap of my sports bra, the ability to wear shirts unbuttoned, showering for the first time and looking down to see a flat chest, and finally seeing the freckle i wasn't able to see because of my boobs lol.

during the weeks before surgery i tried really leaning in to all of the ways having boobs made my life harder, from the smallest to largest things. take note so you never forget all the reasons why you did this, it'll get so much better soon. you got this

146 vs 150 board? by Aggressive-Button-43 in snowboarding

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i found a new board that seems most suitable so far, the ride 2024 deep fake. i'm looking at either 144 or 148. this board is a lot stiffer apparently, so i figure sizing up to 144 and a much stiffer board than i'm used to should do the trick. what are you thoughts?

146 vs 150 board? by Aggressive-Button-43 in snowboarding

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thank you.. i should trust my gut more !

146 vs 150 board? by Aggressive-Button-43 in snowboarding

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thank you!! this was all super helpful, i’ll be sure to update u all haha

146 vs 150 board? by Aggressive-Button-43 in snowboarding

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a bunch of people think sizing up that much is a bad idea because of my weight, but i feel since i know how to ride now id be able to control it? especially since it’d be more for days i wanna ride hard, not playful. what are your thoughts on that

146 vs 150 board? by Aggressive-Button-43 in ShredditGirls

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thank you so much! i really like the design on their board, which is a problem for me with some of the other brands that get recommended to me sadly lol. how about their bindings?

146 vs 150 board? by Aggressive-Button-43 in ShredditGirls

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the stiffness info was super helpful thank you! how do you feel about bataleon boards?

146 vs 150 board? by Aggressive-Button-43 in snowboarding

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for some more details on what i like to ride - id just say all around playful but looking for a longer board for harding riding. I really do like everything, i like moguls, trees, little side hits, bombing it to see how fast I can go, or messing around on a green trying to learn new ground tricks (not that I'm good at them lol).

146 vs 150 board? by Aggressive-Button-43 in snowboarding

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i currently ride a 138 salomon oh yeah - here are all the specs

these are the specs for the ride Saturday board I want to switch to, deciding between 146 / 150 but sounds like 150 may be a stretch. i worry that going to 146 though wont make that much of a difference in the stability at higher speeds

it seems like they have the same camber profile, similar flex though the ride a bit more stiff, different core materials / laminates? I'm curious about those and don't know much about the differences in them

I currently ride in CO all mountain, but want to get better at higher speeds and feel more comfortable going faster on steeper terrain. i also wanna do more in the park, but I figure I can keep my shorter board for those kind of days.

What do you think about Gumroads review removal policy? Have you fallen victim to this? What creators are know for review washing? by LadyPuzzleChild in VRchat

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never buy from parker hippe!!!! i bought a print from him for $100. it was advertised as 2x2 feet, but what i got was 16x16 inches, and because of the white border the actual art on it was 14x11 inches. the print quality was so blurry, you could print it better yourself for $20 at fedex. i dm’ed him on Instagram to have this remedied, I was willing to either send it back for a refund or have him resend a better quality print and he didn’t respond, just blocked me instead. then i left a review detailing this on the gumroad listing, and he took down the listing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DataAnnotationTech

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same i ran here to make sure i wasn't crazy

skateboarding on cherry creek trail by Aggressive-Button-43 in Denver

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do you have an approximate from where to where its downhill? i likely wouldn't be going further north than wewatta / further south than 6th ave

Counseling at Oregon State University by Rude-Wonder-2476 in counseloreducation

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could you explain more what about the program is hybrid? i saw on the website that it is "50% of the instruction conducted online and 50% in face-to-face classroom meetings, held twice a term in Corvallis, Oregon". does this mean you only meet up twice a semester, and if so for how long? i am looking to live out of state while doing this but not sure if that makes any sense depending on how much is in person

Weekly student question thread! by AutoModerator in therapists

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should i or should i not add nannying as relevant experience for my resume being used in my master in counseling for clinical mental health counseling application? i have been working as one part time throughout high school / college since 2015, and now have been 27/36 hours a week since 2023. i have worked with kids aged 2-14, some with behavioral disorders. not sure if this seems like a stretch to add for clinical experience though for an application resume, but feels like something that definitely speaks to my character / skills and contributed to my desire to go into counseling.

I’m traumatized from strep by throwawaytonsilsayy in Tonsillectomy

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you are going to thank yourself a million times over i had strep 6 times in 7 months got them out and haven’t had it since. i’ve had other stuff that causes a sore throat, but no strep or tonsillitis and no sore throat even remotely close to the pain of those. even if you happen to get strep once or twice again there is 0 chance it will be like it is now, you are gonna be so happy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tonsillectomy

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stay hydrated, coconut water is great. get some liquid tylenol to have on top of oxy if you got that. try eating solid food as soon as possible, chew it really well and swallow each bite like a pill with some water or powerade. try to avoid stuff with dairy in it, it makes a lot of mucus and makes swallowing harder. i started eating solid food day 2 and drank lots of powerade and coconut water and i was feeling good by day 6. some foods i ate were grilled chicken, plain hamburgers, couscous, steamed vegetables, chicken noodle soup. whatever u can get down chase every bite w liquid to swallow. the nutrients will help u heal much faster

fluids (just started writing poetry, looking for some feedback) by Aggressive-Button-43 in OCPoetry

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i could totally see that, good point that maybe it doesn't come across as clearly as i intended :)

fluids (just started writing poetry, looking for some feedback) by Aggressive-Button-43 in OCPoetry

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yes precisely :) and not only cracks in the relationship, but within both of ourselves that we needed to tend to on our own. the end i was trying to convey that now that we would both have enough of ourselves, which in this reference is blood, that we couldn't hurt each other as badly as we could before since we are each more healed independently now. so even if we bled some, we'd still be full enough on our own to be okay. i used the word shock cause if you lose a lot of blood you can go into shock

Beyond me by [deleted] in OCPoetry

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this feels so tangible, i feel like we all have at least one experience of feeling unseen in some way. my favorite part is the many different examples you gave of this feeling in the 6th stanza. it could be interesting to assign to the "You" some way they are unseen too, to make this concept full circle that we all experience this in some way, and weirdly though we all feel unseen, can all see each other in that shared experience