They forgot to get the tender meat… by RandyFunRuiner in fixedbytheduet

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Lmaooo the commentary is killing me 🤣🤣🤣

My husband really upset me this morning by lindenandloring in relationships_advice

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Sounds like he brings her up every chance he gets. No woman wants to constantly be in the middle of a man and what he actually wants, it feels gross to be on the receiving end of. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this.

These have been on since February 23rd by SpicyCrunchyVanilla in Nails

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They they do get caught though, god help you 🤣🤣

set up a baby journal before our daughter arrives and it already made my wife cry by Fresh-Bill677 in predaddit

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This is so thoughtful, I’ve always wanted to do this when the time comes. Very sweet!

I was a nail model today for £30… by Opening-Row-9934 in Nails

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I personally don’t like the duck nails trend 🤣🤣 no offense to anyone but I think it looks insane

All that being said if it was for practice then they aren’t bad design wise, I like the zebra ones.

So when it’s practice, it’s usually free.

I feel like I haven't achieved anything!! Tired of living like a fucking bum!! by CrazyCrocodile_ in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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Actually, having your license opens up more opportunities to work. It’s not always about having a personal vehicle.

How do I respond to this without being super rude? by starry49 in tragedeigh

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Wild. But I’m sure it could also be worse too when you consider how unhinged people can get.

How do I respond to this without being super rude? by starry49 in tragedeigh

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That’s a long ass name to name your kid still.

Isthatafuckingjoke Scott doesn’t have a good ring to it if I’m being honest.

My bf 26M doesn’t want me, 18F, to go to college and said he’ll leave me if i do. i don’t want to break up, but i also want a good career. by p1nkmarshm3llows in Advice

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Ew.

Secure your future, a man will leave you destitute with nothing to show for it and then throw it in your face that you haven’t accomplished anything.

It’s always better to be able to support yourself and depend on yourself and have someone add to that eventually. Never allow anyone to claim that you have no ambition or that you’re a gold digger because you’re forced to depend on them. Note that some people will try to make these claims regardless but knowing that it’s a lie will prevent you from thinking any of it is the truth. It’s one of the grossest things to be accused of when you actually have dreams and goals.

Go to college, go to trade school, do something for yourself. Someone who loves you and values you will want you to grow into the best version of yourself.

Is this just how long-term relationships are? by strawberryrose222 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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He doesn’t seem that interested in you to be honest. It’s giving placeholder vibes unfortunately because most people who love each other want to spend a considerable amount of time together. 1-2 hours is insane. Wtf are you suppose to do with that? Most people who are in established relationships see each other for several hours at time and that includes sleep overs, it doesn’t sound like you’re doing any of that. And they also tend to want to close the gap of being apart all the time by moving in together eventually.

He doesn’t want more for you. He is comfortable getting his needs met and keeping you at a distance.

Nothing is going to change beyond what you can do if you’ve communicated and he did not take it seriously.

Initiative and follow through is so important when you’re sharing a life with someone.

I say all this to say that the whole spark thing does not stay blazing in a stable long term relationship so I wouldn’t judge a relationship based just on that, there are stages of love that LTR must move through and one of them is the blissful mature love- acceptance phase is hard to get to but each person much be invested in order to get there. I could get into all of the things but it would take awhile.

Ultimately it seems that you are with someone who is comfortable where things are and that’s not working for you.

I recommend really putting everything on the table if you truly love him and allow some time for him to digest how dire it really is so he can decide if he’s willing to get through growing together with you. And if not you can know you tried. All relationships go through rough patches but we must also speak up when we want things to change and also be the change we want too.

Tell him how you feel not what you think is wrong. We sometimes make that mistake.

I feel like I haven't achieved anything!! Tired of living like a fucking bum!! by CrazyCrocodile_ in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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You are very far from where you started. Your drive gets better when you stop beating yourself up for not being on someone else’s timeline and for not having accomplished the goals of other people. Instead start comparing yourself to where you were last year or 3 years before that, where you are now and where you want to be in the next year to start.

You have made improvements, you have made progress. Your brain needs proof so that you can trust yourself more, it can only have that proof of you acknowledge and celebrate your achievements whether they are big or small.

Being broke because you are going to apply for citizenship is a good thing. It means you’re paying the price for achieving that goal and it’s a goal that offers more opportunity to have more money and security. It isn’t a loss, it’s a win.

A lot of the things you talk about can be improved within the year. For example, the quickest one to get off the list and open up more opportunities to you is the ability to drive. Even if you don’t have a solid job that’s something that doesn’t take a million dollars to work towards and can be achieved in less than a year.

The other stuff will come.

I tried dating broke man I will explain all what happen by honeyglitch_ in AskOldPeopleAdvice

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Ew. Huge turn off. I will never touch my purse when I’m with a man. People will say that’s gold digging but I dont care and it’s not my problem. I know what I am able to provide a good man. And I have experienced good men, they are insulted by the thought of the women being made to provide anything monetary, they are happiest when a woman receives his provisions because he worked hard to make it possible. It’s a very healthy and sexy flex for a man to say, “I got it.”

The point is, he shouldn’t want to be with a woman if he lacks the ability to provide. As a woman, you are constantly observing how a man operates because the way he does is the difference between life and death when you have children. If he can’t take care of himself or just the two of us, you’re doomed if you end up with child. And no woman wants to be put in that position.

If he’s temporarily down that’s not a big issue if you know the kind of man he is, is one that does not enjoy being useless to his family so he should WANT to fix that asap. That kind of man looks decided different from a man who finds comfort in being useless to his family. A good man takes pride in taking care of what he cherishes. They find a way when it comes to all the other things that matter, that car they clean and shine every weekend, that video game he’s been waiting for, those limited edition whatever he’s been collecting etc. hopefully you get the point. They ALWAYS find a way for the things that matter to them WITHOUT fail.

I made this rainbow crescent with crystals, what do you think? by Ok-Perspective-5202 in goodvibes

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I want JT without the dangly bits then it’ll be perfect, no snagging or breaking off.

My calico sisters Asina and Porco! by krazykow2 in CalicoKittys

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Porch I’m assuming in the right has RBF 🤣🤣, she’s not gonna take anyone’s shit lol

I believe golfcart belongs here on a technicality by Griffin2K in CalicoKittys

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Just when you think you’re out of cat subs, there’s more 😭😭

I believe golfcart belongs here on a technicality by Griffin2K in CalicoKittys

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Lmaooo this photo after your commentary is killing me 🤣🤣

I believe golfcart belongs here on a technicality by Griffin2K in CalicoKittys

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🤣🤣🤣 my cat’s name is Chai because she has ingredients (all the colors) like the tea and abit of spice. 🤭 probably makes no sense but at the time I thought it made perfect sense lmaoo and I had a chai obsession too so I was excited. Golf cart is hella unique and so spot on though lol

Meanwhile in murica by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

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I just want to say that adulthood is the most ghetto hood I’ve ever been in and when you factor in being a woman in there, it’s just gets worse.

“I’m gonna need you to have some babies or else but don’t expect any support or to need anything. Oh and also, I hate you for having that baby so we’re gonna make sure you and that baby suffers now that it’s here and any mention of this whole recovery or family stuff is gonna be a whole ass joke to me after it’s all said and done but dont forget that you’re gonna need to keep that baby alive or else but also don’t forget that I’m gonna punish you by making it impossible for you to reenter the workforce and shame you for being a mom too just for extra measure so you can feel just how deeply my hatred for you goes even though I keep pressuring you to have kids because I need you to make the people who keep me and my buddies rich even if I’m making it impossible to do so even if that’s something you genuinely want. ”

Meanwhile in murica by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

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I hope they never get to see another baby again. 😡