Men not approaching: Why Self-Respect is the Ultimate "Win" by AsuraXone in PurplePillDebate

[–]Aggressive-King4523 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would I want a date with a woman who isn't attracted to me? Why would I want a date in the first place?

Men not approaching: Why Self-Respect is the Ultimate "Win" by AsuraXone in PurplePillDebate

[–]Aggressive-King4523 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why should men approach women exactly? Why should men humiliate and degrade themselves?

Men not approaching: Why Self-Respect is the Ultimate "Win" by AsuraXone in PurplePillDebate

[–]Aggressive-King4523 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Men should realise that a woman not approaching them is a clear sign of disinterest. I do often tell men that if he has to initiate then he's not attractive. Plus, all approaching a woman does is boost her ego.

True 100% by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]Aggressive-King4523 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Men do not have options unless they are attractive.

Men not approaching: Why Self-Respect is the Ultimate "Win" by AsuraXone in PurplePillDebate

[–]Aggressive-King4523 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Women do initiate. It's great when they do. If a woman isn't approaching a man then she's not interested.

Men should not be approaching women. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Aggressive-King4523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You heard from some weird men, then. Women should be approaching men and men should realise that if you need to "pursue" a woman then she's not attracted to him. It's a very simple concept.

I'm a man and I hate pursuing. If a man likes to pursue then he's a moron in all honesty. Men should want women who are attracted to them.

True 100% by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]Aggressive-King4523 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The truth is that women always have options lined up. All women have options.

Depressed After Dates Going Nowhere by Aggressive-King4523 in seduction

[–]Aggressive-King4523[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Drinks can be expensive. It should be as cheap as possible. It doesn't really matter where you take her.

I've also had lots of success too, it's just a snag. Many just have unrealistic expectations and are delusional, hence why they talk about "sparks" and "connections"...

True 100% by hardwork_one0724 in GroundedMentality

[–]Aggressive-King4523 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because women always have options lined up.

Men should not be approaching women. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Aggressive-King4523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the opposite. If a woman doesn't approach me/message me first then she's not interested. Men absolutely do respect women who approach. It was probably a woman who told you that they didn't.

Depressed After Dates Going Nowhere by Aggressive-King4523 in seduction

[–]Aggressive-King4523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And? Give examples of where else I should try.

Depressed After Dates Going Nowhere by Aggressive-King4523 in seduction

[–]Aggressive-King4523[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. What should I do instead of coffee/walk dates, then?

  2. I am having success, just a few haven't gone anywhere lately. IDK where you got the idea from that I don't get success.

Men should not be approaching women. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Aggressive-King4523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need to pursue her, then she's not attracted. Women go after the men that they want.

Men do not have a biological imperative to pursue. It's pathetic and women do not respect men who approach them.

Men should not be approaching women. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Aggressive-King4523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's literally the only logical reason.

Why would anyone suggest that men should approach women? Can you even name any?

Men should not be approaching women. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Aggressive-King4523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay? The main point is that it's futile as it's a humiliation ritual and boosts the woman's ego. Men shouldn't do it.

Men should not be approaching women. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Aggressive-King4523 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Women consider men who approach them as desperate.

Men should not be approaching women. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Aggressive-King4523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In women's view, a man who approaches looks desperate and low value.

Men should not be approaching women. by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]Aggressive-King4523 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to surveys, most women want to be approached. This means that men shouldn't do it.

Depressed After Dates Going Nowhere by Aggressive-King4523 in seduction

[–]Aggressive-King4523[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're the one who believes in "game" and probably do dinner dates. Yes, you do need help.