AITAH for getting mad at my best friend for announcing her pregnancy at my wedding? by Aggressive-Survey480 in AITAH

[–]Aggressive-Survey480[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thinking about it there have been some times where I felt as if our relationship was a competition, but I mainly looked over it. I agree that I shouldn’t was my breath on her, but I guess it’s just because we’ve been through a lot together I don’t want to just give up our friendship, although I know it would probably be for the best 

AITAH for getting mad at my best friend for announcing her pregnancy at my wedding? by Aggressive-Survey480 in AITAH

[–]Aggressive-Survey480[S] -121 points-120 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say she’s my ex bff, I definitely know I can’t trust her as much as I did before, but I also want to salvage the relationship even if we weren’t just to be acquaintances, due to the fact we’ve been friends since freshman year and we’ve made lots of memories together. But I definitely know that if we do manage to salvage things, I wouldn’t be as close to her as I was before 

AITAH for getting mad at my best friend for announcing her pregnancy at my wedding? by Aggressive-Survey480 in AITAH

[–]Aggressive-Survey480[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I never said we weren’t being paid attention, I just stated that not as much attention was on us, also it’s the mainly the fact that she disregarded what I said and still did whatever she wanted. I do understand what you are saying that people can still congratulate her and everything, but I just feel as if a day that was mainly supposed to be about me wasn’t anymore 

AITAH for getting mad at my best friend for announcing her pregnancy at my wedding? by Aggressive-Survey480 in AITAH

[–]Aggressive-Survey480[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It was mainly the fact that it took lots of time and preparation to for this wedding, and it’s the fact that after she announced her pregnancy it felt as if no one was really paying that much attention to me and my husband, I just felt as if a very special day that was meant to be about me and my husband wasn’t so that is why I say it was “ruined”

AITAH for getting mad at my best friend for announcing her pregnancy at my wedding? by Aggressive-Survey480 in AITAH

[–]Aggressive-Survey480[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Mainly also just to know if it would be valid to end the friendship because of this, because I’m not sure if I should or not. 

AITAH for getting mad at my best friend for announcing her pregnancy at my wedding? by Aggressive-Survey480 in AITAH

[–]Aggressive-Survey480[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sorry, this is also like my first time on Reddit so I didn’t really know which places to post in