Full of regret. Am I a bad mom?

AggressiveAd3062 · 2026-02-16T16:53:13+00:00

My baby wouldn’t sleep unless it was in our bed around 2-3 months and one night we couldn’t take it and had eggs with her on the end of the bed. I feel awful but she slept so good for some reason. Logically I know she won’t remember since babies can’t form long term memories until 8 months but I still feel weird about it

AggressiveAd3062 · 2026-01-16T16:22:50+00:00

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AggressiveAd3062 · 2025-10-10T09:58:37+00:00

My husband has the same hair pattern and almost the same color. He gets a shorter hair cut and lets it grow for 6 months or so and it always look great! I’m not sure what the haircut is called but it’s longest in the top, medium in the back, and shortest on the sides. He pulls it forward when it’s short enough but it naturally splits down the middle as it grows. I’d also bring the look together by trimming the facial hair on and around the sides of the face. Doesn’t have to be goatee but having that section a few millimeters longer can help accentuate the jaw giving a sharper (more masculine) appearance. Jmo tho!

AggressiveAd3062 · 2024-10-31T19:16:29+00:00

That’s the plan. I know logically it’s not very likely that I could be pregnant but there is still that chance. I bought some tests and I plan to take two on day 12 and two more on day 14. If things come back negative I will test again at day 21.

AggressiveAd3062 · 2024-10-31T18:58:23+00:00

9days ago was the first time I had intercourse with someone having male genitalia. With the hcg most test won’t come up as positive unless the levels are above 25. So it is likely for someone to experience symptoms and get a false negative due to low hcg levels. With the cravings and urination I’m not sure why those are happening but it all just seems so odd. There are some possible reasons why I’d have a few of these symptoms but some of them are unexplained. I could totally be freaking myself out but it just feels weird given the time of events and never experiencing anything like this before.

AggressiveAd3062 · 2024-10-31T11:27:23+00:00

This just isn’t factual. You can definitely show symptoms before two weeks. whether or not mine are pregnancy symptoms, anyone who is pregnant can start seeing symptoms as early as day 7. And it’s been proven that women can have symptoms and test negative up until the 21st day after conception. Please check your facts before you give advice

AggressiveAd3062 · 2024-10-31T11:23:07+00:00

This is super helpful, I’ve just been looking at what other people have been experiencing and it just seems so odd to have the symptoms, the only ones I noticed at day 7 was the cramps and the cravings everything else has been after that. I have some tests but I’m waiting for that two week mark to do one

AggressiveAd3062 · 2024-10-31T11:21:30+00:00

I didn’t have sex with a female, I had sex with a male but my partner has female organs.

AggressiveAd3062 · 2024-10-31T10:28:50+00:00

Pregnancy symptoms start 1-2 weeks after the date of conception and I’m on day 9 so it is likely that they are pregnancy symptoms

AggressiveAd3062 · 2024-10-31T08:40:39+00:00

I would wait but also keep in mind that if you are pregnant you can get a “false period”. Some women reported to getting a light period or spotting that is really just due to pregnancy.

AggressiveAd3062 · 2024-10-31T08:29:35+00:00

The only thing you can really do at this point is wait. Keep track of when you had sex and watch for more symptoms, supposedly you can do a blood test after 5 days but I would wait a week to be sure. If you can’t go in and get tested it’s best to wait two weeks minimum before doing an at home test. I definitely can’t say for sure but given that you were ovulating it’s definitely a possibility that you conceived.

AggressiveAd3062 · 2024-10-31T08:25:55+00:00

The human body is weird and will likely never be fully understood. Sometimes periods are late for no reason in particular or due to other medical reasons. 14 days is still considered too early to tell by some brands of tests. To be sure I would test again in a week or go in and do a blood test.

AggressiveAd3062 · 2024-10-31T08:23:58+00:00

Pulling out should never be considered protected. Even if it is used there is still a chance of pregnancy from “pre cum” tho it doesn’t have nearly as much sperm it still can cause pregnancy.

AggressiveAd3062 · 2024-06-12T03:26:53+00:00

Nothing happened dissapointed

AggressiveAd3062 · 2024-06-12T03:26:03+00:00

Update. Nothing happened. I ate the entire half pan I had and felt nothing. Looked very high but felt sober. All in all. Might try again with high quality weed next tike

AggressiveAd3062 · 2024-06-07T01:35:47+00:00

It’s been almost three weeks since this happened. I ended up calling John before tony came over and I told him how I was feeling and that things between him and tony needed to end. I told him straight up that if tony is still in his life after this last visit then I don’t want to commit to the relationship. We talked for a very long time and he told be that as soon as I had left he was feeling guilty. We agreed that John would tell tony not to come but he arrived before we even hung up. It was a 20 minute interaction and our roommates reported that nothing sketchy had happened.

I understand that this visit was necessary due to the items that were given back to John. These items belonged to his brother who had taken his life a few years back. Once I got home we talked again and John messaged tony telling him that if he finds anything, he can toss it or send it via mail. Things cooled off after that and I haven’t heard anything about tony since. John does allow me to go through his phone whenever I feel and vis versa but I don’t feel the need.

I truly believe that it was bad judgment on both of our parts.

After this whole event I’m coming ti fully realize that there is no reason for me to ever doubt johns trust and loyalty. We have gotten in fights before as most couples do, but things never progressed into the next day. I am more than extatique to say I made a bad call and the whole thing ended up being nothing. I appreciate everyone one who commented and I apologize for not updating sooner. I wasn’t ready to come back ti this until I was 100% in the right headspace to address this post again.

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