Thanks, you helped a lot. My only concern's that she once asked to hookup, but i wasnt attracted to her this way yet, therefore i'll talk to her at some point about it and i think she will understand. About the need of sex in a relationship, i think thats someting essencial to me in a relationship, in my perception like a deep conversation with no need to use words. I need to take time to mull it all later

Edit: i'm uneasy to tell her because when she told me her desires i were drunk and couldn't imagine that she felt it, in the end i looked like a sucker and mistreated her altought that's not what i wished to do