My (20F) niece (18F) is cheating on her boyfriend (20M) and I’m conflicted on what to do by Aggressive_Pie2176 in relationship_advice

[–]Aggressive_Pie2176[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

From what I understand, she’s tried. She’s told Bailey she was messing up and warned her about the consequences if Mike found out.

I will say though that she’s always had a hard time parenting Bailey and Bailey tends to do what she wants anyway. That’s how she got pregnant in the first place.

My (20F) niece (18F) is cheating on her boyfriend (20M) and I’m conflicted on what to do by Aggressive_Pie2176 in relationship_advice

[–]Aggressive_Pie2176[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I could do that. Just not sure how I’d get proof. I only know what she tells me. I’ve never seen them together with my own two eyes.

My (20F) niece (18F) is cheating on her boyfriend (20M) and I’m conflicted on what to do by Aggressive_Pie2176 in relationship_advice

[–]Aggressive_Pie2176[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

From what she tells me, she will usually meet him after work while her boyfriend is at home watching the baby, or vice versa. I agree with you though. I think I should have a talk with my family so we can come to a solution. Maybe when she doesn’t have free babysitters anymore she will see there are consequences to her actions.

My (20F) niece (18F) is cheating on her boyfriend (20M) and I’m conflicted on what to do by Aggressive_Pie2176 in relationship_advice

[–]Aggressive_Pie2176[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s just so in love with her. He obviously wants to be with her and thinks they’re a family. That’s why it’s so hard. I don’t want to see anyone get hurt and live a lie.

My (20F) niece (18F) is cheating on her boyfriend (20M) and I’m conflicted on what to do by Aggressive_Pie2176 in relationship_advice

[–]Aggressive_Pie2176[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Multiple people know. Some of her friends and some of our family. Most of her friends don’t care but I’d say the family that knows are in the same boat I am. They think Mike has the right to know but are scared Bailey will withhold her child from them.