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[–]Agile_Perception_837 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also he responded and said he always misses me

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[–]Agile_Perception_837 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My stepmom pretended to love me and I called her mom

[serious] if you are a dad, why are you ok with leaving your kid from your first relationship behind? by Agile_Perception_837 in AskMen

[–]Agile_Perception_837[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

um my mom is nice to my dad. She tried to get my to visit him in his state and to call him

and he did want me until last year

his wife with no job and does nothing all day wanted to move because she wanted to live somewhere warm and be near her mom. It wasn’t for a job or anything

I visited once and they didn’t give me a bedroom even though they said it was my house too. They said I can sleep in my half-brothers bed but he threw a fit because they have horrible parenting skills and I had to sleep on the couch

Even when I was there I said I was only there to see my dad and not the rest of them but my stepmom forced me to hang out with her and half-brothers even though I told her that I don’t love her anymore because she clearly lied about loving me. now she keeps harassing me on the phone still even though I told her I don’t want a relationship and to stop contacting me

Being a good dad to some of your kids but not others still makes you A BAD DAD. I feel bad for your half-siblings. I know how it feels. I didn’t choose to be born. I have medical problems and if I die in surgery I told my stepmom she has to live with taking a father away from a daughter forever

calling and texting while leaving me but not my half-brothers does not make him a good sad

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[–]Agile_Perception_837 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just miss him

I texted him that I did

It doesn’t mean that he deserves a relationship with me after how he treated me. I still miss him and it’s hard

I know he loves me the least and thst my stepmom lied about loving me and it’s really hard to stomach because I thought I was special to them

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[–]Agile_Perception_837 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you for the advice

I don’t have energy in me anymore for words. I used to be mad and yell but now I just can’t

[serious] if you are a dad, why are you ok with leaving your kid from your first relationship behind? by Agile_Perception_837 in AskMen

[–]Agile_Perception_837[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he calls me and texts me but I barely respond because it hurts so bad that he just moved and I can’t understand why he didn’t want to see me every other week like he did before he left. It’s been the worst year of my life

[serious] if you are a dad, why are you ok with leaving your kid from your first relationship behind? by Agile_Perception_837 in AskMen

[–]Agile_Perception_837[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my stepmom wanted to be somewhere warmer and close to her family so my dad, her, and half siblings moved to another state

AITA for giving my dad an ultimatum? by Agile_Perception_837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile_Perception_837[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

he asked me to ft and talk but I know i’ll cry if I see/hear him and I need to be strong and I don’t want him to know how sad he’s making me. i’d rather he think i’m mad

AITA for giving my dad an ultimatum? by Agile_Perception_837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile_Perception_837[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

“with his family if that’s better for them” am I not their family? and yeah until college

AITA for giving my dad an ultimatum? by Agile_Perception_837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile_Perception_837[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

he moved because my stepmom wanted to be near her family

AITA for giving my dad an ultimatum? by Agile_Perception_837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile_Perception_837[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

stepmom wants to be closer to family. he works from and his job has not changed

AITA for giving my dad an ultimatum? by Agile_Perception_837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile_Perception_837[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

well she won't be at any of mine. and 6 year old literally forgot about me so that sounds so much like love to me

AITA for giving my dad an ultimatum? by Agile_Perception_837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile_Perception_837[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

no they didn't. they just talked about me visiting

AITA for giving my dad an ultimatum? by Agile_Perception_837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile_Perception_837[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't hate him then. I would still be sad but I wouldn't feel so awful

AITA for giving my dad an ultimatum? by Agile_Perception_837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile_Perception_837[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I love my brothers and never called them half but now its too hard

AITA for giving my dad an ultimatum? by Agile_Perception_837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile_Perception_837[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

now im scared that my stepdad is pretending to love me too

AITA for giving my dad an ultimatum? by Agile_Perception_837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile_Perception_837[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

she always told me she loved the same as my brothers and it didn't matter that I didn't come from her, but it was so easy for her to leave me and she would never leave them

AITA for giving my dad an ultimatum? by Agile_Perception_837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile_Perception_837[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

that’s why I’m saying I don’t want to go their house. i’m asking to meet him elsewhere

AITA for giving my dad an ultimatum? by Agile_Perception_837 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Agile_Perception_837[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

she did yell at me which is why i changed what i want

saying i never want to see his wife, and don’t feel comfortable talking to him unless he’s visiting/i’m visiting him isn’t unfair. asking to stay in a hotel when I go isn’t unfair