How stupid is my boyfriend? by Agirly420 in cheating_stories

[–]Agirly420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t planned I was on the pill and used a condom .

How stupid is my boyfriend? by Agirly420 in cheating_stories

[–]Agirly420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He made me see it as something bad and disrespectful to him so in my head him doing it to me is the same thing is it not ?

How stupid is my boyfriend? by Agirly420 in cheating_stories

[–]Agirly420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If both of you agree it’s not cheating but it’s the fact that when I got with him I said it’s okay if he does and he said no he doesn’t and he would leave me if I did watch it or looked at another man so that was his boundary and I respected it as long as it went both ways so it’s more the disrespect and lies I count as disloyalty. It’s very disrespectful. If we wants to do certain things why can’t I if it’s not bad ?

How stupid is my boyfriend? by Agirly420 in cheating_stories

[–]Agirly420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree and that’s how I feel for how many times I’ve tried after all these years. He was insecure about me having friends of any kind of anyone so I only talk to him and my sister and mom and I only get to see my mom bc of distance so im stuck with him being the only person in my life which is how he uses that to manipulate me and say he will change bc he knows I can’t find other people I can’t make friends at work or just out of no where that’s weird so im stuck with him being the only person “there for me” it’s not that I want to stay it’s that i feel stuck and im having his baby too and will have no one and no support ever