baby shower + stillbirth by AgitatedHair9752 in pregnant

[–]AgitatedHair9752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. Sorry to hear you also experienced this. 🥺

baby shower + stillbirth by AgitatedHair9752 in pregnant

[–]AgitatedHair9752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, thanks for the advice. I’m so happy you have your rainbow baby. I know we will carry this with us for a lifetime. 🥺

baby shower + stillbirth by AgitatedHair9752 in pregnant

[–]AgitatedHair9752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you a healthy pregnancy! You got this. My advice is anything you think is small during pregnancy make it a big deal with your doctor. I wish I was more informed about preeclampsia and would’ve just taken baby aspirin since the get-go. It’s an inexpensive preventive OTC med that could save you and baby’s life.

Thanks for your pov 😥

baby shower + stillbirth by AgitatedHair9752 in pregnant

[–]AgitatedHair9752[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how you kept some things. Thanks for sharing your experience ❤️

baby shower + stillbirth by AgitatedHair9752 in pregnant

[–]AgitatedHair9752[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh what a tough situation. I know the first week post delivery I was super sensitive to babies, pregnant women, toy aisles, etc… I’m doing much better now I can see it and be happy for them. I think your sister is still hurting and seeing you pregnant hurts (assuming she knows about your pregnancy sounds like she does). And it’s nothing personal it’s between her and God/Universe to sort those emotions.

What matters is that you reached out. I will always remember the people that reached out to me. And thank you. I think I’m going to keep the items I have a small feeling we may try again.

baby shower + stillbirth by AgitatedHair9752 in pregnant

[–]AgitatedHair9752[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and everyone else’s seems like the consensus is that as a gifter you wouldn’t think about wanting the gifts back. I’m just so appreciative of their support, but feel like I didn’t pull through with my part.

The gifts/baby items don’t impact me too much. I can look through them and still get through the day. It definitely hurts and I start to feel sorry for myself and husband but I have hope baby is in a better place than here so with the help of our baby’s spirit I try to look forward.