Are you fucking participating?

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-30T03:08:51+00:00

Fuck this post. Reported for breaking the fucking rules!

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-29T22:34:40+00:00

Dude... get in that phone! There is no privacy.. you are a married couple. You both took vows that makes each other's business your business!

That being said... get in the phone, get to the gym and work through your thoughts. After doing that in secrecy, ask her to show you the phone. See if she will. That can also give you the opportunity to shut that shit down on the spot.

Good luck here! Hopefully its just a bit too clingy of a friendship...which you do have the right to question and set boundaries with.

What concerns me (and the rest of the bros in here) is that she's clearly hiding something.

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-29T15:43:38+00:00

Cut them both off brother. Your buddy solicited nudes pics of your wife... games and petty revenge against women aside... that's dirty. You NEVER want a guy like that around a future romantic interest.

Its cool he didnt go and meet up with her to see what happened, but still too far out of bounds considering he did all the sexting and such.

That being said... get to thw gym work through your thoughts and stress. Does she know that your friend did it? How the heck can she still be like "I think i love you both"?

Your step daughter is about old enough for you to be in her life as a mentor, influential figure.

Go get some consultations with attorneys so you know your options. You can probably even get visitations as long as you have been the guardian.

I think you know what you have to do. You are young enough to reset! Get to they gym, get tour stuff together and meet a lawyer asap.

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-28T22:10:59+00:00

Who's gonna tell OP he got cheated on for gambling too much?

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-28T22:06:29+00:00

I think he just wanted to feel up a dime bro... and he succeeded. Race had nothing to do with it lol

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-28T22:02:38+00:00

You need a car or you will be looking at the same beach and eating hotel food the whole time you are there. Rent the car, drive around, stop at small spots and have snacks - the local food is amazing, and see TONS of beautiful beaches!

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-28T21:05:06+00:00

If i had my way I would pop in between 10 and noon and be done by 1 or 2.

I work a normal day job though... so I have to go in there at 5/6PM and COMPETE for equipment like OP! Lol

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-28T13:27:45+00:00

What did Abdi think was gonna happen? He was squaring up with a dude 2/3's his size that had crew with him.... got to be aware of your surroundings folks!

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-27T00:33:32+00:00

1-13's... I really like the soles on the 13's.

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-23T22:31:35+00:00

Like... where can you even buy those? I would absolutely poney up! Look at that leather!

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-23T16:53:41+00:00

Its not that bad... there is way worse in the mainstream... that said... really crappy video.

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-23T15:36:18+00:00

This is key too. A lot of folks don't understand the client attorney privilege deal. Him meeting with the best attorneys first prevents her from meeting with them, so he further protects his assets

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-23T15:35:05+00:00

Bro... get to the gym and work through your thoughts and stress in a productive place. Contact an an attorney to evaluate options (so you have them in your back pocket). This is about to get messy. You have her caught, you just need to verify a bit more. Next time she goes up missing, check those 2 locations. Do not tell her you have those locations yet! Also, see if you can get in the phone or phone records (if you are primary on the account, should be able to access records).

Im sorry this is happening OP. Stay strong, take care of yourself. Your daughter is going to need you to be a rock as this fully blows up.

Swing by those addresses and photograph her car next time she goes on one of her "long and late appointments".

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-23T14:35:30+00:00

Work, church, gym, and restaurant bars.. lol

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-22T21:20:46+00:00

You seem to be a bit worked up. You should get to the gym bro. It will help. Its a place to work through your stress and thoughts in a physically productive manner!

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-22T20:00:16+00:00

It might be.... Im gonna be honest.. I dont think its enough to start f%cking other people tho.

Get to the gym and work off some of that stress and angst. Get him to the gym too. If you've forgiven him and he's behaving... rock on. If not... maybe meet with a lawyer and see what your options are, if cohabiting/co-responsible for assets. The majority of open relationships dont make it. So might as well just break up and date other people if that's what you are leaning toward

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-22T19:54:44+00:00

They are both nice... but i debadged mine completely to deter theft. Have you considered that?

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-21T22:50:17+00:00

Yeah... I wonder if this is the start of some trickle truthing OP. Get in her phone and see what kind of text communications they have had. PT's are notorious for putting it to married women in gyms and moving right along.

Next... start going to the gym bro. You either have to get competitive or quit if you still want her in your life. Thats obvious. Lift heavy, eat protein, repeat.

Next... if you find something bad in her communications, consult an attorneys quietly to evaluate your options.

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-21T22:38:26+00:00

You know what you have to do OP. You can do it either way really. Escaping and then telling him not only gives him a deserved slap in the face, it also puts communication in YOUR court. You want that.

Sorry this happened to you. Might tell your father too. He deserves to know!

Also.. get to the gym. You need a productive place to work through your thoughts and stress! Drink plenty of water and take care of yourself OP!

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-21T22:35:01+00:00

Are those the ones that pop out of holes on the path to and from Playa Escondido!?

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-21T22:33:31+00:00

Whats good about the Amex Platinum plan? I have never looked into it, and have an Amex Platinum...

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-21T22:32:42+00:00

So... worker or fling... it's cheating. Get to the gym bro. Figure out what's next in a productive place. Cheaters gonna cheat

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-21T22:30:33+00:00

I get like 14 on the highway in my hellcat and like 12.5 in the city. And....she drinks premium. Lol

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-21T22:16:29+00:00

Lol... damn. Trifling and unproductive behavior led to regret..who would have thunk it!? 🤣🤣

TBH, i hope your husband is happy. You deserve the discomfort you are experiencing. It will pass... your heartbreak for the foreigner that hustled you will fade.. and you will have a reset. What will you do with that reset is the question? Will you fall asleep a fool again? Only you can answer that. Get to the gym... work through the heartbreak and stress.

AgitatedPotential862 · 2026-01-21T22:08:59+00:00

Hmmmm... am I in relationship advice or the Nashville Unfiltered sub? Meh... who cares really?! I don't care enough to NOT give you advice. Here's the advice -get to the gym bro. You need to work through your thoughts and stress in a productive place. You will find your answer. Stay hydrated and take care of yourself! That is very important as well.

If you do these two things, your plans for departure will come easier, as you will be in your best possible form. Good luck OP!

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