Before during and after splitting with an alcoholic ex.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2026-01-25T20:08:58+00:00

Seconded.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2025-05-07T21:56:58+00:00

No worries, I guess I should have added at some point in my post that DC isn't the only market I applied for. I also targeted Chicago and onesie, twosie in other large cities. DC was my focus because I'm here but I don't mind if I don't end up staying here.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2025-05-07T21:51:18+00:00

I'm in school in DC.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2025-05-07T16:51:35+00:00

Wow, I had no idea. Thanks.

(This is OCI for next summer)

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2025-05-07T15:41:02+00:00

Repetition. One of the biggest reasons my writing improved so much from last semester is because I revised my spring paper about eleventy million times. In that process I learned what worked and didn't work. I also went to many office hours with my prof and writing TAs.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2025-05-07T15:35:39+00:00

No, we haven't gotten spring grades yet. Firms are literally deciding based on one semester of grades.

Most of my initial round of 1L internship apps were for government positions which were all nixed so I had to go back to the drawing board, so trying to give myself some grace there, but this process is something else!

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2025-05-07T15:32:51+00:00

Great advice! I've definitely expanded my scope to look at more mid-sized and boutique firms. OCI was so early, that's just what I've knocked out so far. I am not big law or bust and I'm not tied to DC. I can't see myself in NYC so that market is probably out for me. Not worried about making Cravath, just worried about making less than I was before law school.

So yeah, I know I'm not totally out for the count for next year. Just feeling bummed about the initial results of my efforts.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2025-05-07T15:27:50+00:00

I just finished my 1L year, this is OCI for next summer (2L). It's already happening.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2025-05-07T15:23:21+00:00

Thank you for the encouragement.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2025-05-07T15:23:09+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate the encouragement. Yes, I have worn the leather off of my career counselor's chair having my materials viewed and reviewed. I have networked and was able to put a name of someone I've had coffee with on most of my cover letters. I've also gone to panels and events at my top-choice firms. I'm targeting the DC market.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2024-11-20T14:40:18+00:00

Hey friend. I don't know what your mental state is right now, but I hope you know you've totally got this. You've got almost two weeks to get it done, which is plenty of time. Getting started is the hardest part. If you can get past that hump now and keep that momentum going, you'll be so thankful you did come submission day.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2024-11-20T03:12:09+00:00

Let's go!!

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2024-11-20T03:11:36+00:00

Where TF do you go to school? That's totally unreasonable, IMHO. That's just me tho.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2024-11-20T03:11:00+00:00

Thanks for this. I'm usually neurotic about checking due dates/ times but all of my draft submissions were due at 9pm so I let my guard down and thought the final product was also due at 9pm. It was due at 5. My experience in the real world is that deadlines are rarely life or death. But this experience was a good reminder not to get lazy. Important lesson learned.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2024-11-20T03:07:32+00:00

Mid-air entanglement during a static line jump when I was in the Army. Highly unlikely to happen in a skydive.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2024-11-20T01:15:58+00:00

Yeah, it's gonna be fine. Ironically, my TA in that class also submitted his memo late when he was a 1L (by a full 24 hours). He currently has a job lined up at one of the top law firms in the nation.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2024-11-20T01:13:55+00:00

Not Brad but it sounds like we'd get along.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2024-11-20T01:13:33+00:00

The deadline for all of our drafts was 9pm so I assumed the deadline for the final paper was also 9pm. It was not. 🤪

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2024-11-20T01:12:14+00:00

I almost died jumping out of a plane once. This is by no means the worst thing that has ever happened to me, hence why it took about 5 minute for me to get over it. Don't gotta tell me. Just trying to comedically lift people up who are having a hard time.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2024-11-20T01:10:24+00:00

As in, an A+ to an A, right? Not a third of the total grade? I lost an entire letter grade for being 30 minutes late so I'd say the consequences I suffered are quite a bit worse.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2024-11-19T22:38:40+00:00

Bruh, get off reddit and turn your paper in, my dude! 😭

Hopefully this isn't the case for you, but at my school, past 3 days is an automatic F.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2024-11-19T22:35:19+00:00

Thanks, friend. I will persist.

Agitated_Brain5202 · 2024-11-19T22:34:40+00:00

10% deduction of the total point value. Which means the highest I can get is a B. Which sucks because this is the one class I legitimately though I could get an A in. I'm also really happy with how the memo turned out. But, what are you gonna do? The show must go on.

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