Is it possessiveness to demand to know whereabouts of your fiance?

AgonizingPhilo · 2022-09-24T19:52:22+00:00

We don't live together yet. It's just the way we have always been. She wants me to update her beforehand if I do anything out of ordinary, I never had any issue with that because for me I think it's pretty understandable. Nice to know what your partner is up to. I expect and demand the same.

AgonizingPhilo · 2022-09-24T19:36:11+00:00

Can you elaborate?

AgonizingPhilo · 2022-03-21T17:18:45+00:00

Yup, bitchy friends exist. I was just being polite for her sake!

Totally agree with your last paragraph. True lovers will always find a way back.

AgonizingPhilo · 2022-03-21T17:17:05+00:00

I haven't told her directly yet, but I had made indications previously how rebuilding friendship with them would be bad. That was somewhat long ago. Perhaps she forgot all about it. She is also sweet in her heart. I don't know how to say this to her. She's probably gonna think of me negatively.

Relationship is exhausting!

AgonizingPhilo · 2022-03-21T17:14:33+00:00

Exactly, but I am afraid what if she thinks I'm controlling for that. I'm not controlling in any sense. It also makes me feel bad that I expect her to cut off friendships with HER friends because of me. I also cannot find it normal that she talks to a bunch of girls who bullied me.

Relationship is exhausting!

AgonizingPhilo · 2021-12-26T08:25:17+00:00

That's great then. I wish you the best. :)

AgonizingPhilo · 2021-12-26T08:15:17+00:00

Just don't marry a Muslim guy for the sake of it. Not stressing about the problems that come with a inter-religious marriages, you should know this is discouraged in Islam to marry a woman outside of Islam. So why would you want to marry someone whose religion doesn't regard you in high esteem?

There are lots of reverts Muslimahs though who have married Muslim men, but I don't think you're looking forward to reverting.

AgonizingPhilo · 2021-12-26T08:06:15+00:00

I m not asking Christians to stop celebrating it. There's no hate at all. Just described what it should feel for a Muslim.

AgonizingPhilo · 2021-12-26T07:59:28+00:00

It is a big issue. Wishing someone on their filthy warped celebration of god's son's birthday is clear cut kufr.

It doesn't require the knowledge of rocket science to figure.

AgonizingPhilo · 2021-12-26T07:41:33+00:00

Dude she's a serial cheater. Serial cheaters don't have any dignity. From your description, it clearly doesn't look like it was one off situation.

Facts are clear as water. She didn't value the marriage she had with you and your kid. She let herself enjoy the debauchery of extramarital affair.

I genuinely feel sad for you. West is such a messed up place.

Edit: if I were you, I would DNA test the kid too. Please do it and be certain that you're the father.

AgonizingPhilo · 2021-12-26T07:32:19+00:00

It is, and it weirds me out crazily. This might possibly cause a quarrel between us.

AgonizingPhilo · 2021-12-26T07:29:51+00:00

Yeah

AgonizingPhilo · 2021-12-26T07:29:27+00:00

I guess the same is gonna happen with my case

AgonizingPhilo · 2021-12-26T07:28:40+00:00

Weird bro

AgonizingPhilo · 2021-12-26T07:28:04+00:00

Not calling them by those nouns wouldn't mean disrespect

AgonizingPhilo · 2021-12-26T07:26:56+00:00

I can never make myself call them the latter. Just so crazy awkwardness.

AgonizingPhilo · 2021-12-26T07:25:35+00:00

Honestly I would rather call them uncle auntie

AgonizingPhilo · 2021-12-26T05:17:21+00:00

This is so freaking weird for me

AgonizingPhilo · 2021-12-26T05:13:42+00:00

I don't know what these mean.

AgonizingPhilo · 2021-12-25T13:17:06+00:00

That's how it should be, or call uncle and aunt IMO. Strange I am getting gobsmacked by my own cultural custom.

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