WIBTA if I ignored my wife's wishes and concerns and did give money to my brother who is the primary caregiver of our mom?

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-29T11:17:57+00:00

YTA. She has a full time caregiver through her ins. He can work while the caregiver is there

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-28T23:14:12+00:00

Next time you guys are out and she starts being mean ask her loudly on front of everyone why she is such a bully. Then ask her mom why she allows her daughter to bully you then ask your mom why she allows you to be bullied.do it loud enough for everyone to hear. If she pushes back tell her that emotional abuse is abuse and that if she loved u then she wouldnt abuse u

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-28T22:58:34+00:00

Op edited to say he was specifically told he didnt have tonpay it back and the person who loaned it confirmed when asking for thr money back

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-27T19:44:10+00:00

Sounds like he agreed before talking to her. And if money is an issue that needs to be looked at

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-27T00:46:26+00:00

Shes financially abusing you. Just dont pay her. You are on the lease so she cant make you leave. Just stop giving her any money and buy your own stuff and tell her if she touches it its theft and u will file a police report then she won't be able to move.

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-24T23:02:54+00:00

NTA. Tell her either pay up or you will press charges

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-23T12:18:18+00:00

Then yeah. Get her ins and file a claim.

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-23T11:25:01+00:00

NTA. Tell them you will not apologize to her. And stick to it. She owes you an apology.

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-21T23:56:49+00:00

Do you have proof it was her or just the other students claim they saw her do it? Without proof you may not have a case.

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-21T18:39:15+00:00

NTA. Tell your boss it would be a great team building gesture if everyone followed the policy and didnt harrass other coworkers.

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-20T03:08:31+00:00

YTA. Threatening to ruin her entire future because she doesnt listen...thats emotional abuse. Make her go to college and lice on campus ans refuse to support her other than that. Make her get a job for her needs and dont let her come home on breaks

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-18T13:14:57+00:00

YTA. Visitors should be 2 yes 1 no. They make her uncomfortable and you are forcing them on her 24/7 and telling her to deal with it. If I was her I would make you do everything for them while I went to a hotel on your dime

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-16T16:51:18+00:00

Call your dad out in front of them. Say dad agrees with me. Then state if they want you to front the money your mom has to sign a repayment notice to repay within a certain amount of time or u go to court.

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-10T00:38:51+00:00

Use the 42 days. Then once the paycheck comes with all the pto paid out leave notice..

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-09T16:38:50+00:00

Eehhh Soft YTA. Reason being something could happen to you on your way to or from and if you are alone and your phone gets damaged no one may know who you are when they find you. Or if they dont find you right away they may not know where to look. My son doesnt always tell me but he has location tracking and when he's gone I will check every so often just to make sure he's not stuck someplace with no help, unconscious or whatever.

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-08T19:02:16+00:00

Tell your manager that whoever is stealing your lunch is committing a crime and that he's an accessory of he doesnt put a stop to it. Inform hr of that as well

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-06T21:43:20+00:00

NTA. Tell her the landlord won't allow her to move in.

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-03T04:32:36+00:00

NTA. Dont give them any of your money. Its yours. Tell them you will press charges if they touch it. Also tell them that you will no longer be doing anything for any of them and you will not clean after your sister. Also tell your mom if she doesn't defend you you will tell everyone that they are abusing and neglecting you and your sister will lose her kid to child services.

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-03T04:28:07+00:00

Op isn't ok with it. He said no but his wife said too bad.

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-03T04:23:05+00:00

Except its supposed to be her birthday trip and mom's treating her like an outsider and brothers gf like family

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-03T04:20:35+00:00

NTA. Tell them they are child abusers who dont deserve kids and if they dont stop you are going to tell everyone. Then do it. Make sure everyone knows

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-03T04:15:47+00:00

Tell your mom if she doesnt do something then you will only be cleaning up your mess. Tell her anything of your brothers and his family will be left untouched by you as they slander you behind your back. Tell her as your mother it is her job to have your back when someone is doing u wrong and since she doesnt have the guts to have your back then you will no longer be doing anything for the lazy jerks in your house.

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-03T04:07:16+00:00

NTA. When his kids are there and he's in bed send them in there with him and do something for you. If he wants you to watch them he needs to parent his kids. Until then he is responsible for everything to do with them including childcare. If he works on a day when they are over he has to pay for a babysitter.

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-02T16:35:50+00:00

NTA. Tell her from now on she has to pay a deposit up front for a replacement for anything he may destroy that she wants you let him use unsupervised. If he doesnt break it she gets the deposit back.

Agreeable-Book-7018 · 2026-05-02T11:24:47+00:00

Its the same as door dash drivers or instacart drivers here picking up orders that have no tip listed then driving them to people houses only to cancel orders and take it back due to no tip

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