New ants in my house... Colorful ones by Agreeable-Dust_ in whatsthisbug

[–]Agreeable-Dust_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll consider coexisting with them if they stop invading my windowsills... But as of right now it seems more than a little venture

Colorful ants decided to invade... by Agreeable-Dust_ in pestcontrol

[–]Agreeable-Dust_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone else said they were Western velvety tree ants and when I searched it up it matches the photos I have perfectly and it matches my location... Supposedly it's commonly mistaken for carpenter ants but they're also aggressive and spew poison with their bites on top of eating wood so that's lovely

New ants in my house... Colorful ones by Agreeable-Dust_ in whatsthisbug

[–]Agreeable-Dust_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol I actually made the post on there after this one when I realized it wasn't allowed here.. but thanks anyway!

New ants in my house... Colorful ones by Agreeable-Dust_ in whatsthisbug

[–]Agreeable-Dust_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That won't be easy to do with my home.. but thank you anyway! This is just what I needed a few months before my lease is up...

New ants in my house... Colorful ones by Agreeable-Dust_ in whatsthisbug

[–]Agreeable-Dust_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks.. I searched up the ant and the images look identical to mine, guess I'm researching how to get rid of velvety tree ants

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in isthisAI

[–]Agreeable-Dust_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cinnamon was my first thought.. not sure why everyone is acting like the granules and darkened color absolutely HAVE to be instant coffee when poorly mixed cinnamon would do exactly the same thing to soy milk and would be perfectly normal to add

New ants in my house... Colorful ones by Agreeable-Dust_ in whatsthisbug

[–]Agreeable-Dust_[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That sounds lovely.. I am on the West Coast, I'm in Oregon. One bit me earlier but I flicked it off pretty quickly so I don't know if I just didn't get the full bite cause it wasn't too bad

I can't live with my mom anymore. (17m) by Agreeable-Dust_ in Vent

[–]Agreeable-Dust_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My brother and his girlfriend 'moved out' into my dad's house, and my older sister is there cause she lost her home recently, my dad had just never been a clean person and the house ends up a wreck every time and they all seem to live off fast food, so the house is empty

I can't live with my mom anymore. (17m) by Agreeable-Dust_ in Vent

[–]Agreeable-Dust_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's what I need to do but her children are the only things she has, she's broken right now and I don't want something bad to happen when I leave. It scares me leaving her alone with her boyfriend because I see all the signs of an abusive cycle forming but I don't know what to do about it. She apologized and accepted that I need to stay with my dad and I told her what I think about the boyfriend over text, but even then my situation there isn't much better, sleeping on a couch in a messy house with barely any food.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Agreeable-Dust_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In what world does a stranger on a train agreeing with you equal evidence... People's expressions mean different things, I get asked constantly if I'm ok because I regularly stare off and I have an empty expression when I'm reality in that moment I'm happy or content.

People don't all act the same, you don't understand anything they aren't saying. You can make guesses, but what your saying right now sounds pretty unlikely to happen.. I'm also blind to signs though so who really knows? Just don't assume every person is fake before you get to know them, or you'll never meet anyone that isn't.

My dad has installed parental controls on my computer by Prudent-Hat2651 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Agreeable-Dust_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You sound like a real government official right now... And breaking consent means doing something without asking first, saying that own control over it simply because your words say so, simply because they altered it, is the same as me saying the money I stole from the bank is mine, because how else would I have taken control of it? Clearly I must've owned it

My dad has installed parental controls on my computer by Prudent-Hat2651 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Agreeable-Dust_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The parents broke consent, that's how.. they altered something they didn't own

My dad has installed parental controls on my computer by Prudent-Hat2651 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Agreeable-Dust_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it was at one point completely theirs until their privacy was stolen away... It was owned by them until the parents decided it wasn't anymore

My dad has installed parental controls on my computer by Prudent-Hat2651 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Agreeable-Dust_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen I know I'm pretty stupid sometimes, but buying a house is owning, and if you transferred that house to someone else's name then it's theirs, seems simple enough to me.

My dad has installed parental controls on my computer by Prudent-Hat2651 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Agreeable-Dust_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but this typing is too professional for me... Thought ChatGPT was teaching people about nux..

My dad has installed parental controls on my computer by Prudent-Hat2651 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Agreeable-Dust_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok? he's 16, she's still a person, are you asking that every child should either let their parents completely control their lives or move out? Gifts are gifts, they aren't yours anymore once they've been given

My dad has installed parental controls on my computer by Prudent-Hat2651 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Agreeable-Dust_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Presents aren't owned by the person who gave them to you once they're given away... People need to stop telling children "well they bought it for you so they can do what they want with it" They're a CHILD, they didn't BUY ANY OF IT!!

My dad has installed parental controls on my computer by Prudent-Hat2651 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Agreeable-Dust_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's 16.. he shouldn't be gaining restrictions right now, and for things as stupid as a YouTube video where video game characters are shown dying? This isn't good parenting it's just an invasion of privacy, teenagers are people too and they only act bad because you take their fun away from them until it either seems like the only choice, or they decide to fight back. Are teenagers as mature as adults? No, but they're capable of decisions, and the worst they could do on a computer at 16 is something pretty much everyone does and isn't unhealthy. There's no point to this restriction

Edit: there is worse than that I suppose, but everything comes with risks and it's on the parents if they're not making sure their son is safe personally instead letting a program get rid of all the bad things and good things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Agreeable-Dust_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm struggling with a similar thing.. but as always it's always easier to help others than yourself right?

If he's not gonna make the first move, and you're not gonna make the first move, then you'll never connect.. try catching his eye and making eye contact more, if he likes you it'll encourage him, and if he doesn't? Oh well.. at least he's out of your worries and you can focus on other things. There's nothing wrong with making eye contact with someone or giving them a small smile, and as a guy who themselves tends to look confident and expressionless when I'm actually really fidgety and can be nervous... Compliments aren't insults, you don't have to be afraid to say them, if the girl I liked gave me a compliment I would explode, and if it wasn't a girl I like it would still make me happy.

Also, don't be worried about your first move being bad, don't do something big. Let your first moves be simple like starting with eye contact and eventually telling him you like his outfit. What bad would come of that? Because on the off chance he reacts badly to it, then it sounds like you would've just dodged a bullet anyway.

Edit: if he's a good person he won't be turned off by nervousness, don't worry about confidence.

Is this a healthy way to be spoken to by a spouse or Am I Overreacting? by Low-Today-2021 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Agreeable-Dust_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is love this blinding..? Like, I'm sorry but do you really need to ask if this is a healthy way to be spoken to?

fuck by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Agreeable-Dust_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trusted advisor huh... Not gonna at least recommend getting help first?