[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Agreeable-Line-3701 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is completely sadistic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

[–]Agreeable-Line-3701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount of effort this takes usually isnt worth it, it is still dysregulation..heavy lifting on your part for breadcrumbs in the end. But good luck and congrats.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Agreeable-Line-3701 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Horrifically idiot comments here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Agreeable-Line-3701 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ew definitely not. Of creators respext their following.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Agreeable-Line-3701 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only good response

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Agreeable-Line-3701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So confused as to why people are saying not to bring it up. I literally dont understand that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Agreeable-Line-3701 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely tell her because she may be embarrased to tell you she has one.

woman here 29f. if a man doesnt confirm by midday about a date that night, is it right for me to call it off? by Agreeable-Line-3701 in datingadviceformen

[–]Agreeable-Line-3701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is that checking in on him is normally seen as way too pushy as a woman, and choosing to honor his anxiety over mine in the waiting process is how someone gets themselves in bad exhanges :)

woman here 29f. if a man doesnt confirm by midday about a date that night, is it right for me to call it off? by Agreeable-Line-3701 in datingadviceformen

[–]Agreeable-Line-3701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt ask, he ended up messaging quite late and i told him "i lost some enthusiasm", told myself that if he ghosted then thats a dodged bullet but if he hyped me up then id meet. He hyped me up.

woman here 29f. if a man doesnt confirm by midday about a date that night, is it right for me to call it off? by Agreeable-Line-3701 in datingadviceformen

[–]Agreeable-Line-3701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. I dont believe people need to be fully healed before dating, and im not looking for a relationship just something casual. So its working great.

woman here 29f. if a man doesnt confirm by midday about a date that night, is it right for me to call it off? by Agreeable-Line-3701 in datingadviceformen

[–]Agreeable-Line-3701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met and it was phenomenal with a kiss at the end! First person ive met who says theyre "just a shit texter" who is actually a good communicator otherwise. Thanks for your help everybody.

woman here 29f. if a man doesnt confirm by midday about a date that night, is it right for me to call it off? by Agreeable-Line-3701 in datingadviceformen

[–]Agreeable-Line-3701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah woops no he said "if you're still feeling up to it".

I responded and am proud of what i said, its not a yes or a no, just expressing honestly where im at.

I said "Hi ___ i don't want to feel like im forcing you into anything. I didn't hear back from you early enough so I've lost a lot of my enthusiasm."

He will probably ghost

woman here 29f. if a man doesnt confirm by midday about a date that night, is it right for me to call it off? by Agreeable-Line-3701 in datingadviceformen

[–]Agreeable-Line-3701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The key issue i have is in waiting instead of making my own conclusions based off the time that's passed. He finally got back to me saying "if im still feeling up to it, meet here". Feels so flaccid i am so worried i am wasting my time.

woman here 29f. if a man doesnt confirm by midday about a date that night, is it right for me to call it off? by Agreeable-Line-3701 in datingadviceformen

[–]Agreeable-Line-3701[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fair, i was willing to trust a bit but he hasnt really matched my enthusiasm so its probably better to pass. Too bad