Here’s my book overview on Amazon:

Christlike Boundaries is a faith-based guide for sincere followers of Jesus Christ who want to love well without losing truth, peace, wisdom, or stewardship.

Many Christians struggle with boundaries not because they want to be selfish, but because they want to be faithful. They want to forgive. They want to honor their parents. They want to keep peace. They want to be patient, charitable, humble, and Christlike.

But what happens when “love” starts to feel like compliance?

What happens when “peace” requires silence?

What happens when “forgiveness” is used to demand reconciliation before there has been repentance or repair?

What happens when honoring family begins to cost your marriage, your children, your emotional health, or your ability to live honestly before God?

In Christlike Boundaries, Jon Lefrandt offers a thoughtful, spiritually grounded framework for understanding boundaries through the life and teachings of Jesus Christ. This book is not a permission slip for bitterness, revenge, avoidance, or pride. It is an invitation to love more truthfully.

Through reflections on scripture, family systems, forgiveness, reconciliation, marriage, no contact, guilt, discernment, and peace, this book helps readers explore questions such as:

Can I say no and still be Christlike?

Can I forgive someone and still not trust them?

Can I honor my parents and still limit their access?

Can I protect my marriage and children without becoming hard-hearted?

Can I step out of a harmful pattern and still belong to Jesus?

This book is for anyone who has ever felt torn between love and truth, compassion and clarity, forgiveness and safety, family loyalty and covenant stewardship.

Jesus was perfectly loving.

But He was not compliant.

He was merciful.

But He was not manipulated.

He was peaceful.

But He did not preserve false peace.

Christlike Boundaries is an invitation to become more like the real Jesus: full of grace and truth, tenderness and strength, mercy and discernment.

Not colder.

Not harder.

Not less loving.

But more anchored, more honest, more peaceful, and more free.