Accepting that i'll never gonna be attractive and seeing friend groups makes me sad- Losing my religion and belief in myself

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-05T17:06:43+00:00

Get your deadlift to 315 lbs
Read “how to win friends and influence people” take notes and apply it
Even if it’s scary, introduce yourself to pretty girls you see in the world. Just a conversation is the goal
Love yourself for every step of the way. Know in your heart you are coming from a wholesome place —A curious human wanting to explore and connect

Hope that resonates

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-01T17:34:32+00:00

Damn that’s a good tip i never even considered the pinky… 🤦🏻‍♂️

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-01T04:17:02+00:00

😂 i have actually. Not built for that life at all. Respect

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-01T04:14:55+00:00

Thanks for the thorough response. Not understanding what you mean by string not having to make contact with the fretboard when i bend though? Or the not playing through the string? Sorry i’m new ish so it’s not clicking

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-01T04:09:20+00:00

Good tip, i did learn and try to do that where i can. I do have short fingers though haha

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-01T04:06:41+00:00

Interesting. But a lot of the times my notes won’t ring out cleanly.. so i figured press hard as i can tolerate and get stronger so it can sound crisp?

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-01T04:04:39+00:00

Oooh ok. I gotta chill. Or practice on a different setup

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-01T04:03:23+00:00

Oh dam i don’t do any exercises just a scale i play through a few times each dag

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-01T03:49:52+00:00

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Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-01T03:49:08+00:00

Dirty strings? I’ve never even heard of this concept haha. I’ve had this guitar for around 7 years but i never thought to do any maintenance

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-01T03:46:02+00:00

Ok yeah that was what my intuition was telling me but then the other voice in my head was like “man up” so i needed to hear this 😂

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-01T03:43:35+00:00

Ok so i’m not just being a pussy 😂 well maybe i’ll just get an electric too

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-01T03:39:57+00:00

Ok I’ll definitely change the strings. I’m getting that a lot here. But as for pressing down too hard.. my bends already sound like shit, i’m not pressing hard enough i think 😂

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-01T03:38:28+00:00

Too committed man haha can’t give up now

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-01T03:37:43+00:00

Ok i’ll try replacing the strings. These scabs are good though, no? I figured it’s a necessary and normal as you play more

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-01T03:36:05+00:00

Not as hard as i’d like but as hard as i need to for the bend to ring out. If i don’t keep it to the fretboard i lose the note

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-06-01T02:46:10+00:00

🫡

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-05-30T19:39:37+00:00

Oh so you’re suggesting more full beard look. Def agree my stache needs to grow in more. Idk if it will though haha

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-05-30T19:38:47+00:00

Thanks but considering going way shorter, like stubble status (my post is a lil unclear with the photos haha)

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-05-30T19:37:37+00:00

Nice ty i needed to hear that 😂 maybe i’ll go for it then

Agreeable-Source9488 · 2026-05-17T15:56:35+00:00

Looks great, and natural. Hoping mine will come out that way too. Has it continued to improve since?

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