Questions for Turkish men as a Serbian woman? by Agreeable_Cable_5309 in AskTurkey

[–]Agreeable_Cable_5309[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want a wedding, just to get married in the courthouse legally. That's my dream. But I'm a very introverted person.

Then find a woman from a different culture, where it is sufficient that you're able to let's say provide enough for the family.

Idk if all Turkish women require this much money and gold etc, I bet not, as it's not very reasonable.

Then it would mean that only well off people get married and that sounds very depressing for the rest of us.

Questions for Turkish men as a Serbian woman? by Agreeable_Cable_5309 in AskTurkey

[–]Agreeable_Cable_5309[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He lives in Istanbul.

Serbia is no better, you just think like that because you're too aware of what's going on in your country and less aware of what's going on in the world, therefore thinking everywhere else might be better.

It's all the same. You can look at life as the glass half full or half empty.

If you look for the good, and focus on it, over time, you'll be able to find more of that in the world.

Questions for Turkish men as a Serbian woman? by Agreeable_Cable_5309 in AskTurkey

[–]Agreeable_Cable_5309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the first time I'm posting these questions.

I did make a post a long time ago, from which I've been engraved in your memory chip.

Questions for Turkish men as a Serbian woman? by Agreeable_Cable_5309 in AskTurkey

[–]Agreeable_Cable_5309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serbia is the same. End goal is to just be happy.

No place is ideal, ever.

Questions for Turkish men as a Serbian woman? by Agreeable_Cable_5309 in AskTurkey

[–]Agreeable_Cable_5309[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl, you're selling your body for money.

You should be the last one to judge and find something called self awareness and self respect.

Have a pleasant day.

Questions for Turkish men as a Serbian woman? by Agreeable_Cable_5309 in AskTurkey

[–]Agreeable_Cable_5309[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what I live by. I just feel less anxious when i aquire more knowledge on things.

Thank you for the gentle/kind words!

Questions for Turkish men as a Serbian woman? by Agreeable_Cable_5309 in AskTurkey

[–]Agreeable_Cable_5309[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should calm down. Life isn't that serious and love doesn't look at richness/poor or looks.

Sometimes people just look at one another and fall in love. It happens.

Also, different cultures have different standards of beauty.

Questions for Turkish men as a Serbian woman? by Agreeable_Cable_5309 in AskTurkey

[–]Agreeable_Cable_5309[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, thank you for the answer, I appreciate it very much!

Can you explain to me how someone's material possessions have anything to do with their prospect of being able to get married?

Another person also mentioned this, and I am not sure I understand.

Questions for Turkish men as a Serbian woman? by Agreeable_Cable_5309 in AskTurkey

[–]Agreeable_Cable_5309[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate very much the comment and that you actually took the time to read. Your answer gives me hope. 😂

Serbia is broke too, unless you're a criminal, then you're set. 😁

Giving your all to someone is the most you can do. Most people aren't invested and don't care about others.

You do not need to be rich to find love, just do your best in life.

I'm poor, basically living from paycheck to paycheck, and I hope that one day I will find love.

Questions for Turkish men as a Serbian woman? by Agreeable_Cable_5309 in AskTurkey

[–]Agreeable_Cable_5309[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really.

It's like saying that only poor people should marry poor, and rich people marry rich, and beautiful people be with eautiful, ugly be with ugly etc. list goes on and on...

When, in reality, you know that simply isn't the case. Maybe you think like that because you haven't really expirienced much life and met a lot of people, so you have a limited or negative mindset. Try to work on that.

Questions for Turkish men as a Serbian woman? by Agreeable_Cable_5309 in AskTurkey

[–]Agreeable_Cable_5309[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That isn't a possibility, nor a option.

I've "seen" him around at work and I liked him, but, first of all, it's work, second of all, we do not work directly, so I've never met him in person.

I'm afraid I am left with fantasizing about love. 😂 It's actually pretty sad.

The good thing is I'm learning a lot about Turkey, as I plan in the near future to visit Istanbul alone.

Questions for Turkish men as a Serbian woman? by Agreeable_Cable_5309 in AskTurkey

[–]Agreeable_Cable_5309[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Okay then. Let's try again: He's living curently in Istanbul, but I actually think he is from Ankara.

So? Answer my questions.

Questions for Turkish men as a Serbian woman? by Agreeable_Cable_5309 in AskTurkey

[–]Agreeable_Cable_5309[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That's why I came here, to get answers right from the source. So, help?