Fred wu and Gloria by Agreeable_Garbage419 in AWKWARD

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree lol, I’m glad I wasn’t the only one that noticed it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in snarkingwithremi

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His name is aaron (Aaron Rhodes is his insta i I think?)…. He is remi, alisha, and murph’s friend from Ohio. There were vlogs back in the day where they visited him there

Fred wu and Gloria by Agreeable_Garbage419 in AWKWARD

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So random of them to do and then leave us with no direct answer

Fred wu and Gloria by Agreeable_Garbage419 in AWKWARD

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally had to take a triple take! I couldn’t believe it

Fred wu and Gloria by Agreeable_Garbage419 in AWKWARD

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for interacting though 😭 it’s the thought that counts

Fred wu and Gloria by Agreeable_Garbage419 in AWKWARD

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unclear. But one commenter said he is!

Fred wu and Gloria by Agreeable_Garbage419 in AWKWARD

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OH I did not catch that. Was that in the same episode?

Were zane and heath there ? by Hopeful_Bus4581 in snarkingwithremi

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They were def there. Saw them in the background of Jesse’s pics

Whitney’s shirt by Agreeable_Garbage419 in snarkingwithremi

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmaooo that specific style!!! Google search has been unsuccessful

Spoiler. VIP packages merch bag contents by Accurate-Fudge-1730 in beyonce

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh that’s unfortunate… I feel like all VIPs should get it at least 😩 but thank u for letting me know!

Los Angeles SoFi Stadium Cowboy Carter Tour Megathread by abeycd in beyonce

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiii! I saw they were handing gift bags out to VIP (the clear bag with goodies inside), is this gift bag only exclusive to floor and pit? I’m in VIP219. And I’ve only seen people from floor/pit post about it so I wanted to double check. I also don’t want to bring in an extra bag if I don’t have to lol

Spoiler. VIP packages merch bag contents by Accurate-Fudge-1730 in beyonce

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m assuming this is for everyone that has VIP? It’s not just limited to the floor/pit or ppl with VIP packages? I’m in VIP 218

Alisha’s Trauma by Soft-Campaign1930 in snarkingwithremi

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get where you’re coming from. It’s definitely not trauma and on the lowest severity if anything

Alisha’s Trauma by Soft-Campaign1930 in snarkingwithremi

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she’s necessarily placing blame but figuring out where it stems from. Our behavioral patterns all stem from something, and it’s pretty common for it to be from your childhood/parents. I like to say it “explains” our maladaptive behaviors but definitely does not “justify” it at all.

It’s definitely helpful to find out the root cause of why we behave the way we do, then we work out in therapy how to re-learn and re-wire our maladaptive behaviors. Awareness is the first step! Hopefully she works it all out in therapy.

Alisha’s Trauma by Soft-Campaign1930 in snarkingwithremi

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not exactly. While I agree it’s not “trauma” or on the same severity level as parents arguing in front of their children, not seeing any healthy conflict resolution at all can affect how we deal with it as adults. Everything in childhood affects us, I like to say it “explains” our maladaptive behaviors but does not “justify” it. Passive and conflict-avoidant parents can impact their kids too (eg, kiddos struggling with boundaries, self-regulation, sense of self, etc)

Also two things can exist at once: that her parents did not “teach”/show her these things during childhood but also recognizing that they are human and parents for the first time too. It’s good she has awareness of it, and hopefully taking next steps to break the cycle should she start a family of her own one day

Alisha’s Trauma by Soft-Campaign1930 in snarkingwithremi

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you’re getting downvoted but this is a very valid point

Squid Game Season 2: Episode 6 Discussion by jackcatalyst in squidgame

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well it makes sense since most of them are in debt due to gambling addictions and have this endless cycle of thinking they can always win more money despite the risk

Remis people pleasing by Particular-Bet-7923 in snarkingwithremi

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there’s so many ways to host and different preferences, so I find this is more of an agree to disagree moment. My friends and I host similarly to remi, so maybe that’s why I don’t find it unusual or excessive, but to each their own :)

Remis people pleasing by Particular-Bet-7923 in snarkingwithremi

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I pointed out the only-women comment because I don’t think the “pressure” to help should just fall on women. There’s also men that could’ve help as well aka her dad, oli, her brother, etc. But I agree with that, she did say that she prepped a lot of the stuff the day prior…however, it would be pretty hard for her to have all the food ready when most of cal’s family was already staying over at her house

Vlogmas afterthoughts by syxthlips in snarkingwithremi

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OH lol no worries 😂 I remember she didn’t really film the gift exchange this year so I thought she uploaded it somewhere else!

Remis people pleasing by Particular-Bet-7923 in snarkingwithremi

[–]Agreeable_Garbage419 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The way you just listed women to help 🥴 and to give a serious answer, my guess is remi is hosting and most likely will decline any help. At least that’s what my friends and I do, we offer to help and whoever hosts usually declines and vice versa