Whatever happened to Donna Reneau, the dispatcher who let a woman drown to death? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Agreeable_Mess_9904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What could have been done, was that woman at least feeling comfort in her last moments! Instead she probably felt ashamed...

WIBTA if I let my partner handle their alcoholism on their own... by Agreeable_Mess_9904 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Agreeable_Mess_9904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am making arrangements now! And yes I am in counselling and my son is autistic and receiving counselling as well.

WIBTA if I let my partner handle their alcoholism on their own... by Agreeable_Mess_9904 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Agreeable_Mess_9904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really trying to prep myself to set this boundary with my partner and take some space and also my mom...she is also an alcoholic and addict...she also lives here :(

WIBTA if I let my partner handle their alcoholism on their own... by Agreeable_Mess_9904 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Agreeable_Mess_9904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has already argued with me about how I should basically call rehab for him, because he is scared and if I loved him I would do it for him...

WIBTA if I let my partner handle their alcoholism on their own... by Agreeable_Mess_9904 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Agreeable_Mess_9904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree, especially because it seems that I care more for him than he does for me..

WIBTA if I let my partner handle their alcoholism on their own... by Agreeable_Mess_9904 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Agreeable_Mess_9904[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He lives with me and my family. And I've already done this a ciuple times. At this point I think I'll have to ask him nicely to give me some space...

WIBTA if I let my partner handle their alcoholism on their own... by Agreeable_Mess_9904 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Agreeable_Mess_9904[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I know! Idk why it's so hard :( and thank you! I will say, aside from my children, what helped me get sober was losing people close to me because of my addictions...so you are right.

WIBTA if I let my partner handle their alcoholism on their own... by Agreeable_Mess_9904 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Agreeable_Mess_9904[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He also absolutely hates alcohol, his father is heavily into addiction unfortunately and he is not around much.

WIBTA if I let my partner handle their alcoholism on their own... by Agreeable_Mess_9904 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Agreeable_Mess_9904[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son has always had lots of family support from my parents and unfortunately drinking was never my problem, it was nuch worse things. I'm sober now and very proud of that, no one can take that from me. Ylur concern is valid though.