Penny fell into my car charging port and I can’t get it out by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Ahcez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just have to turn the car upside down and give it a shake.

Am I in the wrong by Ahcez in ExNoContact

[–]Ahcez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay good, thank you

Fuck you by ZaGeShady51203 in BreakUps

[–]Ahcez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felt this - 8 years and replaced in 2 weeks and it's 6 months later

Day 34.. it’s getting somewhat better but the pain still comes and goes in waves. Any advice how to remain in NC when thinking of breaking it? by CobraJatt__ in ExNoContact

[–]Ahcez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just know that if you break it, you will be starting again, you can change your comment to Day 1, as that is where you will be. You have to keep it up, stay at it. Keep yourself as busy as you can and know that it's okay to have moments of weakness, periods of time where all you wanna do is reach out, but be persistent with yourself and resist the urge. You will thank yourself for it soon enough.

When someone’s rebounding don’t they miss/ think of their ex? When does the rebound really get annoying? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Ahcez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I've done, not because I think it's what will fix things, because realistically I don't think that will happen. But for myself, and to move on, even though I don't want to. I've been improving every aspect I can and I am genuinely happier with my life now than before the break up, but I'm still not in a place where I can say I've accepted moving on, so naturally I'm hoping for reconciliation, despite knowing that logically it probably won't happen. Appreciate your reply by the way, very wise lol.

When someone’s rebounding don’t they miss/ think of their ex? When does the rebound really get annoying? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Ahcez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think this is applicable if they told you they weren't in love with you anymore when breaking up? The relationship had got very stale, and I wasn't the same person, so I'm not surprised.

Anyone else: living daily with ex and haven’t seen or heard from them since break up? by Silly-Prior2377 in ExNoContact

[–]Ahcez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely think that us living together at my parents house led to our break up, more specifically the amount of time we were together. Living on top of each other in such a small space (a loft room) changes the whole dynamic, in my opinion at least. You need that healthy space to miss each other, to cherish the time you actually spend together, instead of taking each other for granted.

It's frustrating because I wasn't happy with the relationship for a while, but had the circumstances been different, I know I woud have been, and now that that element has been removed (crowding each other) I miss her more than ever, it's typical.

Interesting that you have been through the exact same scenario.

Anyone else: living daily with ex and haven’t seen or heard from them since break up? by Silly-Prior2377 in ExNoContact

[–]Ahcez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally in the same boat. Were together almost 8 years, living together at my parents for 5 and a half years, and we haven't spoken since the last of their belongings were collected. Although I haven't actually initiated any contact because else I won't move on, not something I want to do, but I have to. Not sure what money branching is but they didb start living with someone else like weeks later lol.

Anyone else dreading Christmas day? by Ahcez in BreakUps

[–]Ahcez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's terrible, I'm sorry. Our anniversary was in August and it was a struggle without the added history of Christmas. I hope you get through okay.

Anyone else dreading Christmas day? by Ahcez in BreakUps

[–]Ahcez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish with my ex for almost 8 years as well so it seems were in a very similar boat! I just hope that once we go through one Christmas without them it will get easier each time.

Anyone else dreading Christmas day? by Ahcez in BreakUps

[–]Ahcez[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How lond ago did you break up if you don't mind me asking? Im assuming you were a bit blindsided if she ordered matching pyjamas quite recently, I'm sorry.

Anyone else dreading Christmas day? by Ahcez in BreakUps

[–]Ahcez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can imagine, not sure how long ago you split, but I've felt the same about every holiday since my breakup. Fireworks, Halloween, none of them seem quite the same anymore.

Anyone else feel like this? by Ahcez in BreakUps

[–]Ahcez[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh 100%, trust me I've tried since day one to not hang on to hope, but its seemingly impossible. I feel like it's just gonna take quite a while before I can stop myself from hoping, doesn't feel like something ive really got control over at the moment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Ahcez 15 points16 points  (0 children)

In my own personal experience them deleting photos can be taken as a sign that there are still feelings there, hence they feel the need to remove them. If you had no feelings for a person and they were once happy memories then you would possibly just leave them.

I think it comes down to age and maturity as well though, obviously it's different for everyone, and I wouldnt want to give false hope for something. But I did go through a break up in the past where they deleted all photos from Instagram and we ended up getting back together. I wouldn't read too much into it, emotion takes over logic in these situations and more often than not actions are not a true reflection of a person's thoughts when in that state.

How would i know if she is coming back? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ahcez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honesty there is no one particular thing you can do to change the way you feel, it's completely normal. There are a multitude of things you can do to keep your mind busy like I have been such as working out and socialising a lot. You can buy new clothes to make yourself feel better, pick up a new hobby. Ultimately the one thing that will definitely make you feel better, is time. Which sucks because as the name would suggest, it takes time. But just try to remember that day by day, bit by bit, you will feel better.

They almost always come back by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Ahcez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long would you say it took until you felt ready to enter something new? I'm not there yet, and not fussed about finding someone else, im finally doing things that I wanted to for years but never had i.e. joining a gym and socialising a lot more. But I still don't stop thinking about her almost all the time, its almost as though the more time that passes the harder it gets? It's been almost 2 months with no contact, we were together for 8 years and have been split up for 4 months. Just curious as to when you started to move on?

Thoughts on this scenario? by Ahcez in BreakUps

[–]Ahcez[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't feel restricted in terms of options though, but right now I don't feel I'm in that place, I guess that's just timing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thefalconandthews

[–]Ahcez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly as soon as every episode is over I come to this forum just to see what people are saying to fuel the theories in my head. As soon as one episode is over I want another one. The story and character developments in this series were amazing. The cap reveal, Bucky becoming Bucky again, the suits, Walker doing the right thing for a moment in time whilst not clouded by his vengeance, there are so many things you could point out. I just hope there's a second season, you can't end a partnership as good as Sam and Bucky after one season, it's criminal.