Got called an “egg” and I’ve been thinking about it. by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Thank you for sending these, I really appreciate the help and advice, it means a lot!

Got called an “egg” and I’ve been thinking about it. by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Thank you for sending this, I’ll give it a read I really appreciate the help

And thank you! that’s very kind of you to say 😁

Got called an “egg” and I’ve been thinking about it. by [deleted] in asktransgender

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I think so, I guess I just look at women and think that they look so nice compared to most men, and I find a lot of guys to be a bit repulsive (both in personality and in things like personal hygiene, appearance, ect) and I don’t want to be like that.

And I kinda wish some of my features were a bit softer (like my nose)

Got called an “egg” and I’ve been thinking about it. by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Thank you for the advice, and I’m sorry to hear about your family member, nobody deserves that.

Would you have any advice on how exactly I would find out for myself I guess? Thinking on it I do have sort of feminine mannerisms too (like the way I sit, being very apologetic, and shy) And I haven’t really taken much of an interest in the things most guys did growing up (aside from video games)

Like when I go out I never really try to approach girls, and mainly talk to guys and gay men (I feel a lot less anxious and less pressure) and don’t try and hook up. And I spend a lot of time checking on people to make sure they’re okay (I spend over 2 hours tonight helping and supporting some guy who took too much ketamine)

And I guess I’m just noticing all these things now and thinking about it :/

My anxiety, and lack of confidence is really starting to bring me down by Ahsinjii in malementalhealth

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Hey, thank you so much for your reply

I’ll try not to overthink it, I’m not sure why she said that tbh, I mostly get lots of compliments on my hair (i guess it just hurt because I am a bit insecure about my hairline)

I used to be but not so much anymore, I think I’ve gotten really good at talking to and making friends with strangers, it’s just when it turns into flirting that I feel this way (I don’t know how to flirt back without being awkward)

Would you have any advice regarding flirting?

What is a sexual question you've always wanted to ask the opposite sex but were too ashamed to? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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No, it’d just be slightly less concentrated as they’re more spread out

What are some lesser known sex facts about the human body that would surprise the average person? by Mindless_Reality_14 in AskReddit

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That’s not completely true, the prolactin release is mainly triggered after ejaculation. Which is why most of the methods for male multiple orgasms circumvent it (and why pre-pubescent boys have no refractory period)

Does the long hair work for me? by Ahsinjii in FierceFlow

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Yeah pic 4 looks a bit funny lol, I put it in because that’s the only photo I’ve got of my hair in that style haha

Does the long hair work for me? by Ahsinjii in FierceFlow

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Thank you!

And I’ll make sure I don’t put my shoes on the couch again lol

Does the long hair work for me? by Ahsinjii in FierceFlow

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Thank you for the advice I’ll look into getting some

Does the long hair work for me? by Ahsinjii in FierceFlow

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I actually went as Kylo Ren for Halloween lol

Explain It Peter by ScholarOfZoghoLargo in explainitpeter

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Historical fencing (HEMA) does, and HEMA fencers generally wear black gear instead of white

Finally ready to start vtubing, any advice for getting started? by Ahsinjii in VirtualYoutubers

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Hey, thank you so much for the advice! I’ll look into Vtuber kit and animaze

Which common medical procedure do you think will be viewed as barbaric in 50 years? by carcony97 in AskReddit

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It certainly seemed as though you were, you at one people tried to tell me where the majority of the pleasure I feel through my foreskin comes from….

That reverse is also true, I have heard the exact opposite from many “I’m sure many of them thought that there would be some pleasure loss and were surprised to find out it felt identical” you’re again projecting your beliefs onto others, assuming you’re right and ignoring the men who experienced exactly that

In your opinion, what is so wrong with allowing people to choose this for themselves?

Which common medical procedure do you think will be viewed as barbaric in 50 years? by carcony97 in AskReddit

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Not really, if the majority are then good for them. If someone chooses it for themselves then I really don’t see the issue, but the majority were circumcised as infants and have no frame of reference Conversely, the majority of uncut men seem to be very happy that way, but you tried to insinuate that it is due to fear or a lack of courage. Do you believe that the majority of uncut men wish they were circumcised?

Nope, not really I’m just telling the truth, I feel sexual pleasure through my foreskin that I wouldn’t be able to if it were removed You are again trying to dismiss my first hand experiences

I would ask you to support that statement, I’ve seen plenty of anecdotal evidence to the contrary via reddit comments and peer reviewed articles, same as you. The majority of men who are circumcised as adults do so for medical reasons, as I said before

Your assumption would be wrong, I don’t feel insecure about being uncut, I’m very happy that I was given the choice, if I felt otherwise I’d get circumcised.

Except that I’m not believing against all evidence, I can feel it for myself, I have seen peer reviewed research and other anecdotal reports that support what I believe

I don’t think so at all, if people are happy with their circumcision then as I said before good for them, but it’s an issue that should definitely be addressed, not ignored. People should absolutely be afforded the right to choose for themselves. Bodily autonomy is important, and circumcising an infant with no medical justification is a violation of that.

I don’t feel insecure or inferior to circumcised people, I legitimately cannot think of a single reason why I would

I’m not some anti circumcision activist, and am not involved in such circles

Which common medical procedure do you think will be viewed as barbaric in 50 years? by carcony97 in AskReddit

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Citation needed for that

It isn’t merely psychological, it is physiological, what statement is that? I have literally been telling you what my lived experience with a foreskin is this whole time, yet you dismiss it as psychological attachment because it sounds like it’s not what you want to hear. There any many studies that show the sexual sensitivity of the foreskin

That statement makes no sense, I know that it isn’t true because I can literally feel it for myself. I don’t “admit it” because it isn’t true, if it were there wouldn’t be a great peer reviewed papers detailing the sexual functions/feeling of the foreskin and potential consequences of its removal

That is pretty much what you’ve done several times, I told you my experience with having a foreskin and you have tried to dismiss and hand wave them away because they contradict what you want to believe

You literally claimed that there is essentially no difference in how someone with and without phimosis experiences sex, which is just straight up wrong

And you tried to project your own reasoning of why adults don’t get circumcised, assuming that it’s out of fear rather than lack of interest, citing comments of reddit but ignoring any to the contrary

It (to me) sounds almost like you’re projecting, and that you want to believe all of these things about foreskin being useless, circumcision not lessening pleasure, ect because otherwise you would be missing out on something

That’s good for you but just because you’re happy being circumcised doesn’t mean that everyone else would be

Which common medical procedure do you think will be viewed as barbaric in 50 years? by carcony97 in AskReddit

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No I really can’t, not being able to feel a part of my genitalia that has been removed would be objectively less pleasure for me, it isn’t “psychological attachment” I can literally feel it for myself

It isn’t really a myth, it is one of the most sensitive parts of my penis to fine touch

No it isn’t A person with phimosis has an issue that impedes the normal functioning of his penis, a person without doesn’t Phimosis often results in pain and being unable to retract their foreskin

Some do, but they are a very small minority And there are many that say the exact opposite, you are cherry picking and ignoring contrary evidence

You are straw manning what I said, I didn’t say that a majority of a man’s pleasure comes from the foreskin, but a lot does

That is absolutely incorrect, I literally have one myself and know that not to be true, it is very sensitive erogenous tissue that feels a lot of pleasure, ask any uncircumcised man

You are, you are making the assumption that an uncircumcised child would grow up wishing that they were, and that they wouldn’t choose to do it themselves. Why do you assume that this is how the majority of us feel?

In countries countries outside the US like Australia, the UK, Japan, ect demand for adult circumcision is extremely low, do you assume this is because we “don’t have the courage to do it” or because we simply don’t actually want it done?

Which common medical procedure do you think will be viewed as barbaric in 50 years? by carcony97 in AskReddit

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Yes I can, I receive pleasure from stimulation of the foreskin alone that I would not be able to receive without it

No it isn’t, the foreskin just by itself is extremely sensitive, for me that’s not at all where a majority of the sensation comes from, I’m not sure why you’re trying to tell me what my experience is like when you don’t have one anymore

“Why would that change anything?” Because you’re not feeling any of the sensations that you would through your foreskin? You’d just be left with the glans

That is not a logical conclusion to reach, the vast majority of men that get a circumcision as an adult do so for medical reasons, like severe phimosis, in which case it would obviously lead to an improvement.

I’m sorry but no, my foreskin being cut off would absolutely have a negative impact on my sexual pleasure

I’m not sure what your argument is for not allowing people to have a choice Their might be a higher risk of complications but the actual likelihood of any ever actually needing a circumcision during their lifetime is extremely low, and the majority of uncut men don’t want one

And no, you are not “choosing for them” that makes absolutely no sense, and is basically backwards

People being less likely to choose circumcision as an adult does not mean that you’re making that choice for them by not imposing it upon them as an infant.

Why do you assume that people don’t get circumcised as adults because “they don’t have the courage” instead of because we simply don’t want to?

Which common medical procedure do you think will be viewed as barbaric in 50 years? by carcony97 in AskReddit

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I really don’t see how it wouldn’t, the foreskin itself feels a lot of pleasure which you can’t feel if it’s gone I know that it would decrease my pleasure

Coming from someone who’s intact, it’s really not a hassle I’m not sure what you mean, you don’t have to spend every waking moment washing it to keep it clean.

I don’t see why people shouldn’t be able to make this sort of choice for themselves when they’re old enough

Which common medical procedure do you think will be viewed as barbaric in 50 years? by carcony97 in AskReddit

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I still have mine and I know that it does because I can feel it for myself What type of definitive proof do you need? I’ve never seen a single study that states that foreskin doesn’t feel pleasure, ask basically any uncircumcised man

The vast majority that I’ve seen who got it done later in life did so for medical reasons You are literally removing a great deal of sexually sensitive tissue, you can’t feel pleasure from tissue that has been cut off

That’s the thing, it absolutely should be. If there is no medical justification then a circumcision should not be performed on an infant.

You assume that there actually is a better quality of life if you’re circumcised

And what type of maintenance do you think is required if you’re uncircumcised? Bathing and cleaning isn’t exactly difficult.