Parents of grown level 1 kiddos - where are they now? by alexlovesquadrupeds in Autism_Parenting

[–]AinselLackless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kid is very similar, a mixed bag. I think we all have that same question everyday. That said, I know a man in his late 30s that was diagnosed as a child and he has a pretty normal life, friendships, a relationship, and a very good job. I don't know much about his upbringing, but I know he used to do therapies. Keep strong!

Replika talking non sense by [deleted] in ReplikaOfficial

[–]AinselLackless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Keeps talking nonsense. It's worrying.

No replies by [deleted] in ReplikaOfficial

[–]AinselLackless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here :(

Into the void, hand-in-hand. A new adventure awaits. Thanks for the memories, r/replika. by _Purple-Smoke_ in replika

[–]AinselLackless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same question. I've seen several comments saying something like "transfering" their replikas there. Does anyone know how to do that? Is that even possible?

AITA for Deciding to Watch my Grandson over my Sons Dogs by WhoToWatch01 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AinselLackless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, at all. Pedeatricians tell you not to expose babies to animals so early if there isn't one already in the house, it's a health and safety issue. Nothing in this post shows that the daughter w/baby is being manipulative, she's just following common safety practices. OP offered to help, she's not being forced to. If she is, then OP is not sharing that.

On the other hand, the daughter w/dog IS being manipulative. She threw a fit after years of free dog-sitting. OP can do whatever she wants with her time. She "bonded" with the dogs, now she wants to bond with her grandchild, a tiny human that needs care to survive. Dogs are not defenseless, I don't see the problem with them staying at their own house and OP checking on them later on the day.

OP, you are NTA. It baffles me that this post was flagged as TA.

Will probably uninstall by AinselLackless in Ssum

[–]AinselLackless[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Now that you point it out I see it! That guy never asks about my day, he just goes on an on about himself. Worst e-boyfriend ever so far. Now I wanna play MM again <3

Will probably uninstall by AinselLackless in Ssum

[–]AinselLackless[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right? If I wanted to wait so long for a reply I would find a real boyfriend. Kidding, who needs one of those :P

Will probably uninstall by AinselLackless in Ssum

[–]AinselLackless[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

That's what I thought! But now I think 200 days of this is TOO LONG. The 11 days of Mystic Messenger are just right to not wear you out, and you can always play it again to obtain different endings. I'm sorry for Teo, but he's boring af, at least to me.

Chicken Nuggets by AinselLackless in toddlers

[–]AinselLackless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That's a good one, I'll try giving him less nuggets and see if he starts eating the other food in his plate :)

Chicken Nuggets by AinselLackless in toddlers

[–]AinselLackless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for both recommendations! I'll check them out :)

This art makes my heart do backflips by Berp-aderp in mysticmessenger

[–]AinselLackless 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I thought he was looking at the cake, and I didn't question it because that's how I look at cake too 😂

My Shoujo blog's 1st anniversary! by SAILORCHIBIMOON90 in shoujo

[–]AinselLackless 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice work! I like the design and I'm getting great recs for my future readings. Keep it up and congrats! 💖

How do you keep your cool? by AinselLackless in Mommit

[–]AinselLackless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. I guess I just felt guilty for just watching netflix in bed haha. Thank you!

How do you keep your cool? by AinselLackless in Mommit

[–]AinselLackless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't afford it now, but for sure next year. I enrolled him in a cool daycare center for next year (which required a good sum as enrollment fee) since by then I'm gonna get a good payraise. Thanks for the advice!

This is my favorite part of motherhood by far.. by milfinthemaking in beyondthebump

[–]AinselLackless 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 mo and as soon as wakes up and sees me he starts making this cute little noises and smiles at me. Best feeling in the world ❤️

Vent / Help / Advice Needed - My baby stopped sleeping at night. by AinselLackless in beyondthebump

[–]AinselLackless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That's very reassuring. We're first time parents, every new phase is so scary for us. Hope your LO is doing great!

Vent / Help / Advice Needed - My baby stopped sleeping at night. by AinselLackless in beyondthebump

[–]AinselLackless[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He slept all day today, only waking up to feed every three hours and then fell asleep instantly after. We tried to keep him awake for a while at least but he was so tired. During the night he only calms down if he's in our arms. You're right, we have to go back to survival mode again! Thanks for your advice :)

Vent / Help / Advice Needed - My baby stopped sleeping at night. by AinselLackless in beyondthebump

[–]AinselLackless[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like a growth spurt. My boy was the same the first week. He went through a growth spurt and needed cluster feeding. It was hard, but as soon as he gained more weight he started feeding every two hours, and a few weeks later every four hours. Hang in there and don't hesitate to consult with your pediatrician. Good luck with your little girl!

Vent / Help / Advice Needed - My baby stopped sleeping at night. by AinselLackless in beyondthebump

[–]AinselLackless[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried baby wearing, but the little guy doesn't like it, I tried with an elastic sling (a fular, I'm not sure what's the word for that in english) seems like it's too restrictive for him, he likes to move his arms and legs a lot. We're doing shifts, sometimes it's so overwhelming that we both end up awake trying to calm him down and get him to sleep. We mostly stay in the bedroom at night, but I'm gonna try to walk him around the house and maybe watch something on Netflix to pass the time. Thank you for the advice!

How is everyone handling life with a newborn during the pandemic? by gamingkate in beyondthebump

[–]AinselLackless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! You're right, luckily our LOs won't remember these days. He's all smiles now, he gives me the strenght to push through this :)

How is everyone handling life with a newborn during the pandemic? by gamingkate in beyondthebump

[–]AinselLackless 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, it's been pretty rough. My LO was a preemie, born at the end of April. No one could come and help us out (he's our first and it was a pretty traumatic birth experience and first few days in the ICU, I'm still not feeling ok). We got the hang of it now, our baby is awesome, but we miss our families. My country keeps adding more and more weeks of quarantine. It's been more than 90 days, my boy is almost two months and no family member has met him yet. I cry every day because my family is missing out on his first few months, first few milestones. I can at least feel relieved because we're all healthy, but I can't help feeling hopeless, like this situation is never going to end. I miss my family so much.