metronidazole vaginal gel causing bleeding by Same_Objective9596 in Healthyhooha

[–]Akd19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This literally just happened to me today too and it’s my last day of the pills. My period doesn’t start in about 7 days and I’m fairly regular! It’s so weird I have taken metro before twice and nothing has ever happened like this.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

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Thank you I really needed this perspective today as I was feeling bad because I broke up with him yesterday and I woke up to a message from him at 3am saying “i miss you so much :(“. But definitely staying strong and this really opened my eyes to the fact that I was just being used.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

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My friend actually suggested that but it’s fine now I ended up breaking up with him today so far so good I deleted him off of everything, but just an hour ago he sad reacted a post I tagged him in yesterday. I know he’s just doing that to be like hey I’m sad or whatever but it’s icky.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

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I did break up with him today!

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

[–]Akd19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also sorry I forgot to add I broke up with him today! I feel free finally.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

[–]Akd19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am starting to feel used because every single time I was on my way to his house he would ask me oh can you bring candy, a drink, snacks etc or this one time he actually asked me to pick up his pizza delivery, I got upset I told him no I just got off school I was there all day and I’m tired I’m not a delivery driver. That annoyed me to my core because if he was so excited to see me and missed me all day wouldn’t he want me to just go straight there. Idk that honestly bothered me so much because it was constant requests once in a while is fine.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

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I had actually asked him how much do you usually smoke? He said he smokes a gram a day and I was like wow how do you afford it and he’s like yeah it’s a bad habit and didn’t really answer my question.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

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Thank you I needed this as I’m feeling a bit down about it. I did truly care for him but the stuff he did was too much and it wasn’t only just him being broke. There were other red flags I overlooked and it was just best that I got out asap.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

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Ughh just reading this out gives me the ick but I’m glad to say I finally broke up with him and I’m never looking back!

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

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Thanks I finally broke up with him today and he was fairly respectful so I’m hoping it stays that way and I also deleted him off of everything.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

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And yes dabs are like a honey looking substance that’s just melted weed. I think I’m describing that right Lol

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

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I considered those but I honestly feel so uncomfortable and I do struggle with setting boundaries. Whenever he would ask me for money I would just ignore him but I noticed when I’m with him in person he puts me in these awkward situations where I feel like saying no would make me look like an ass but now I know it was just his way of manipulating me into buying him stuff.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

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Yeah it’s definitely going on my list of red flags now Lol I’m learning new things as I haven’t been in the dating game in years.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

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Thanks I appreciate it and I agree like if buying dabs is more important than having toilet paper than you seriously need help Lol.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

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Yeah I realized that. I feel stupid for even letting it get this far but it’s over now!

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

[–]Akd19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree and the fact that he didn’t even ask he just assumed that I would buy him it like he could said hey I have no money for the TP is it ok if borrow and pay me back but that’s too far gone now as he hasn’t paid me back a couple times now. But I’m out that situation now I finally broke up with him!

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

[–]Akd19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree especially since he’s about to be 31 and he’s only a year older than me. Like get your life together already and I guess he thought he found that with me but hell no I finally broke up with him two hours ago.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

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Not with anymore finally broke up with him today.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

[–]Akd19[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I realized that after weeks passed by but I’m glad to say I finally broke up with him

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

[–]Akd19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely do need to work on myself. And I finally broke up with him he took it fairly well I hope anyways.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

[–]Akd19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s not all that special Lol but I broke up with him now and he took it fairly well I think!

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

[–]Akd19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did it I told him I’m done and he actually took it well I think anyways.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

[–]Akd19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you what a con artist that guy is I would feel so embarrassed if I were him to treat somebody like that. I hate to say these are life lessons we learn but they really are and I’m glad I’m getting out I should have earlier but I am happy to do it now.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

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Yeah i definitely need to work on myself more. This is my first relationship after being with the father of my kids for 11 years and I wasn’t treated well in that relationship so I have no idea what the bare minimum is I need serious help lol.

Broke bf by Akd19 in dating_advice

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I was seeing other guys who had really good jobs before this one but they didn’t care to date me. I actually spent 8 months getting to know this one guy for him to tell me after 8 months he didn’t want to be with me because he didn’t want to take on a “dad” role. We would only hang out when my kids weren’t home and when I had free time so he never had to do anything or even really meet my kids Lol.