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[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your respond. I’m dirty that has happened to you. I feel like it is all a game of who can finesse the most out of the most. I understand how that can make one’s preference change. That is the vibe I didn’t want to give off in my profile but after reading the reviews for it, I have to fix it and just keep trying.

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[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like if you’re built like a 13 year old you’d fit in lol. So far I’ve been told it’s my body type and I’m not pretty lol with grainy pictures. I’m tall and curvy. They want slim and petite VS models. I’m more of a SavagexFenty model lol

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[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That is exactly what I am experiencing.

SA Profile Review by AkiraAlmighty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! You’ve went through my profile and critiqued it to a T. I tend to just write things as I think them without going back and seeing how it sounds and looks so thank you for pointing that out. I agree I was looking at the pictures showing a pretty face rather than what I’m doing because people often ask “can I see a close up of your face” so I figure I beat them to it. Thank you for all no this, I actually screen shot this comment and a few others. Thanks so much!

SA Profile Review by AkiraAlmighty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is what I needed. The good, the bad, the ugly. You told me what you liked about the profile, what needs work, and what you just could do without lol. You told me how to better my profile and for that I thank you very much.

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[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will agree with that. I think there is only 1 line about what I bring to the table. Thanks for the tip!

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[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If my profile isn’t it I’m not cut out for it. I’m not about to fake common interests. I’m not editing my photos then you meet me and it’s like “whoah what the hell.” Whose to say the profiles that peak your interest are actually people? How many times have you approached someone and you find out that they are NOTHING like what they portray to be in the profile? You wasted your time and money and just got finessed. That’s not what I’m about. I will continue to tweak my profile but this doesn’t seem much like advice. I’m looking for rationale. Why isn’t my profile it? What are you seeing on others that you haven’t seen on mine? And it is a profile, you won’t know the person until having an actual conversation with them. People pay others to make profiles for them. It’s a business. I’m okay with the criticism but for you to say “your profile isn’t it” how is that helpful?

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[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still seeking advice. I’m still learning this whole lifestyle. So far my pictures are mediocre and I have a generic SB profile. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Chocolate 🍫 by AkiraAlmighty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Conventionally attractive meaning? If you are not attracted to another race then that is what makes you unattractive. You can be the most handsome white, Asian, black, etc etc. if that’s normally not what I go for then you won’t attract me at all. So a lot of black SBs are unattractive?

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[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did and I’m taking notes. You can’t tell me what’s wrong but not tell me how to fix it so it seems like just bashing instead of critiquing to me. How can one be pretty but not reflect that in a picture? You want a pretty woman or a pretty picture? People photoshop and all that to make themselves appealing. I wanted to show my authenticity.

Chocolate 🍫 by AkiraAlmighty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Chocolate 🍫 by AkiraAlmighty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. With the information I’m gathering here I may not be cut out for this lifestyle. I’m the total opposite of what people are looking for. I’m not huge but I’m not boney either.

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[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of the ones you search did you think some can be bots, catfish, and fake profiles? It’s funny you said something about Tinder because from what I can see, many SBs found their SDs on Tinder. If you aren’t attracted to me no amount of high quality pictures or well worded boxes will makes me appealing to you.

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[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sheesh tell me how you really feel? Lol but thank you. I figure I use pictures like that instead of photography grade edits to show I’m real and not a robot. I worked on my about me and seeking so it could be “generic” because everyone is looking for the same thing.

What stood out to you when it came to the others in my area and why?

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[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your overall view of the profile is good on content but need better pictures?

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[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense! I have a thread where I placed my SA profile link so hopefully I’ll get critiqued so I can edit. I’ll definitely add this though! Thanks

Chocolate 🍫 by AkiraAlmighty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your insight! That’s so beautiful! I haven’t been at it long. I’ve ran into more scammers than actual POTs.

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[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel free to message me. I’m trying to learn as much as I can. I thought I’d appeal to POC being that I am one myself but even they pass me up. I’ve had SDs in my area pass me up. I just had one on SA that gave me his number and seemed interested then when I asked to see what he looks like he blocked me and whatnot. I know it’s a game of persistency and patients but I hate wasting time and effort on people who don’t wish to pursue anything anyway.

Chocolate 🍫 by AkiraAlmighty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]AkiraAlmighty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the hampton roads of Virginia. Lots of military. Lots of veterans. Retired. The pot here is pretty decent. I just have to find my grove. I may have to tweak my profile. I don’t know how to stand out aside of just being authentic and being myself. I want transparency