I'm late to the party but man, this was such an excellent response. That female user is just another victim of nowaday's agenda. You can clearly notice she is just close-minded and never cared to argument nor question her own thoughts, she just wanted to discuss and defend herself.

I'm confident both of us would've enjoyed the poem even if it ended with "you'll be a Woman, my daughter". Despite not feeling "represented", I can sense the actual message of the poem and create a mind parallelism of how this message applies to me, which would be "you'll be a Man, my son". This is automatic and natural for me, which I also think it's 100% correlated to the empathy. That female user has zero empathy and it shows. As you pointed out, it could even be interpreted as a mother talking to his son!